I Needs Help -_-

I Needs Help -_-

So, as some of you know, im bi. If you havent, congrats! You learn something new everyday. Anyway, im the type of person who just randomly hugs you and plays with you're hair, even if you're a stranger. Doesn't have anything to do with me being bi, just the way I am. My friends find it a bit strange and often joke about me being lesbian. Should i tell them i'm bi? Would it ruin our friendship?

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CrystalDiamond2323
All my friends at school... The kinda "random" group (that's a REALLY huge group) we always hug random people and play with each others hair but none of us are lesbians, so it's a normal thing for a girl to do those things. If they're really your friends, they'll accept you how you are. Being bi or les doesn't mean you'll have a crush on one of them.. U less u do. I hope this helps!
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on September 11, 2014
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Elleyd
Tell them if you feel you can trust them and want them to be your real friend.
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on September 11, 2014
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RoseHeart
Truthfully I wouldn't find it weird at all and I don't mind my friend licking or biting me regularly so I think I may have simply adopted to weirdness but I think you should at least tell your best friend
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on September 11, 2014
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JeweledOwl812
Yes, you should. There's NOTHING to be ashamed of. If she hates on you because you tell her, she doesn't deserve to be your friends. And those jokes about you being lesbian? That is NOT right! X-(

Anyways, good luck! :)
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your.local.patrona
i think its normal to be bi or even lesbian and if your friends don't accept you for what you are then maybe find other friends and if you feel bothered when they call u a lesbian maybe tell them about it
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on March 17, 2020
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threebeltking
I think you should, if they can't respect you how you truly are, they aren't the best friends.
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on March 24, 2015
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Silverfoxy8
What's bi?
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AnimePup
Bisexual, meaning she likes both genders.
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on October 05, 2014
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xxredfeatherx
i think it will be fine but they might think ur on the odd side
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on September 28, 2014
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Horse.of.Wagon
Don't think it would ruin your friendship, just slightly tick them off... Just also tell them you don't have any feelings for them... If you do ask them how they feel about it.
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on September 12, 2014
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muffmuff40
JUst tell them if your ready if they were really your friends theyd understand and accept it and like you for you :)
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Paraboilc
I don't think it would matter THAT overly much, I have a few bi friends, doesn't bother me
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BasicCactus
I told most of my friends that I'm bi. They took it ok. Although one of them told her boyfriend... -.- Anyways, that's beyond the point. I think it's perfectly fine for you to tell your friends.
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Cristallite
Well, IMO it shouldn't, if they are true friends they wouldn't care, bi or not.. Or something like that...in all its your own opinion and your choice but im just saying (and I hope I am) that being a online friend and told that, I didn't mind, if they do get weirded out or anything then im sure it will pass.
~Crimson
P.s hope this kinda helps.
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