How do i tell my dad i like girls?

Recently I have been getting attracted to girls and decide im bisexual but my dad is a republican and is against gay rights...and it will be a little while before I move out and im surely gonna have a gf before I move out and my mom is proud of me for opening up to a new experience but she doesn't want my dad to ever know but I gotta tell him eventually because he's gonna find out sooner or later and he KNOWS when im liying to him...what do I do?

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RoseHeart
I think you should tell him. Your mom should support you, if he finds you with a girlfriend and explodes that would be much worse than him exploding in your house when no one is visiting
Your_Average_Fangirl
No I actually think it's a good idea! ^_^ my mom and I went over it and we decided that when I get a girlfriend we will tell him ^-^
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RoseHeart
Ok, well I'm glad that I helped
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on October 20, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Thanks
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RoseHeart
Sorry if I'm not much help
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on October 20, 2014
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Froststar_Leader_Of_Thunderclan
Be as honest as you can with your dad
on October 20, 2014
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sapphirethehedgehog
He's your dad, he should understand ^.^ after all, that's what fathers do
Your_Average_Fangirl
But the problem is he's against that people...
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sapphirethehedgehog
If he is her dad and loves her he would not do these things
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on November 21, 2014
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Kisume
maybe hurt her, get violent, ignore her, kick her out... proceed with caution
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on November 21, 2014
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staygold
Exactly. He's your dad! What's he gonna do, arrest you? Kill you?? I don't think so, honey!!
:3
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on October 22, 2014
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sapphirethehedgehog
he should still understand? Whats the worst thing he could do?
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on October 21, 2014
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DarkAngel1204
Just tell him. Like you said, he will find out sooner or later. Better now tell him. If you lie, it will only make matters worse
on October 20, 2014
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DiamondTheHedgehog
Tell him that you have started feeling attraction towards other girls and ask him to help you, if you think he's not going to accept you. Cause if he doesn't like you because of that, try to be straight. If you really can't just tell him "I'm your daughter and you should love me for who I am.." I think it'll be fine if you're bi.
on October 22, 2014
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staygold
I love you for being who you are. Even though I'm straight, I think gays, lesbians, homosexuals, bisexuals, transgendered people, etc. totally ROCK!
Your_Average_Fangirl
Thanks! your one of the very few people in the world who sees it as something normal I hope there's more people in the world like you someday!
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SmileyRiley24Hedgehog
it technicaly is something normal so I don't get why people make a big deal out of it.
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on November 03, 2014
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staygold
Aww thanks @JasmineTheFox :3
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on October 23, 2014
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Elleyd
Well, this is a very difficult thing to do. Make sure your mom is with you. Be calm and straight-forward with it, don't sugar coat. Don't ever raise your voice or get defensive. Just tell him straight out and own it, do not back down; worse thing you can do is cave in. Do tell him though because otherwise it will only make it worse. Be very gentle though, I know this seems contradictarory but what I mean is don't be like "Dad, I'm gay. Deal with it." Say something more along the See More▼
Your_Average_Fangirl
Thanks
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Elleyd
Np Good luck!
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on October 21, 2014
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Elleyd
I'm really sorry but I want you to go in with low expectations so the fall doesn't hurt anymore than it will already. We'll be here for you though
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on October 21, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Ok thanks I will try my best to get all the advice on this in one and hopefully he will understand
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Elleyd
Warning: this is going to be brutally and painfully honest but you need to know: he will probably not understand, accept,or forgive. You need to be careful which is why I so stressed having your mother with you.
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on October 21, 2014
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Sassy_Mime
Just tell him. He's going to have to live with it. Love is love.
Your_Average_Fangirl
Sounds good!
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staygold
Exactly. Just be who you are! And if he doesn't like that, that's his problem. (I mean no offense to your dad...)
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The_Weird_Fangirl_Of_DeathNote
h...im not so good at these things but! um....JUST..... HECK YOUR MEH BFF I WILL TELL HIIM!!! (or at least try to lol )
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Polarize
Do you know how to bake?
Your_Average_Fangirl
Lol sounds good to me!
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on November 10, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Kinda.
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Polarize
Make a cake. On it right 'Bisexual'. Ask your parents to come into the kitchen. Say, "You are what you eat!" and gobble it down.
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on November 10, 2014
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on November 09, 2014
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rrnnpp
Your dad should love you for who you are and not judge you for what you think.
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JayCity02
Maybe you can pray to go And ask him to help you out and be straight. But God can't help with everything but, don't tell your self your bisexual your only like 14 your confused you don't really know what you wanna do, but nothing can stop you from being you.
Polarize
I hate you. Get a life.
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JayCity02
Okay lossers my work here is done I can't fix the world
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on November 10, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Exactly! He thinks he's a great Christian but if he's sexist like that he's defiantly not a good one.
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on November 10, 2014
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Polarize
lol no prob that dude needs to get a life
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on November 10, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Thanks for standing up for me.
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on November 10, 2014
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JayCity02
It's telling the truth. People don't Wanna know the truth these days. I know I'm judging but If your juding somebody and its not bad or a sin then correct them. I just follow God you should to you probably do but I follow him morethen you do
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on November 10, 2014
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Polarize
Okay, let's go over all the stuff you said.
-"Don't tell your self your bisexual your only like 14 your confused"
-"Ask him to help you out and be straight"
-"because your suppost to know its wrong to you know how gross it is when a boy kisses or has sex with a boy or a girl kisses or has sex with a girl"

Sounds like hate
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on November 09, 2014
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JayCity02
I do have a life I don't hate gay people I'm just against what you do
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on November 09, 2014
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on November 09, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
@jayswaggs Now your just being sexist/immature
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on October 22, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
And don't tell me what im feeling your not my damn mother....
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on October 22, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Friend there's nothing in the bible that says homosexuality is wrong and if your not gonna let me be me then please leave...God loves me for who I am and I think being bisexual is who I am unless God tells me to be straight I stay this way.
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RosenEliza
God does love you for who he made you to be.
But the path you chosen he doesn't like it.
Sodom and Gamorrah was burned down because of that path.

I'm not saying you Cannot do it, you can do it, God will still love you as his child.
But he will always dislike the path that you have chosen.
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on October 28, 2014
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staygold
Im talking 'bout da kissing
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on October 23, 2014
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JayCity02
its not cute well when girls do it its sexy @Mockingjay52
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on October 22, 2014
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staygold
Damn right!! @jayswaggs that's not gross it's cute. Get out.
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on October 22, 2014
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JayCity02
because your suppost to know its wrong to you know how gross it is when a boy kisses or has sex with a boy or a girl kisses or has sex with a girl
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on October 22, 2014
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on October 21, 2014
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