This is a weird question....

I don't really know who I am. I know what my name is (I'm not an idiot) and I know who my parents are and stuff but I don't know who I am. As in personality. Sometimes around my family I'm cynical and wordy (don't know how to say it) or rough and boyish with my brother, or around my friends I can be arty and musical, or silly and loud and crazy, or in class I'm quiet and smart (apparently according to parents evening) or around people I don't know on my own I'm awkward and quiet (the opposite if I'm with a friend, I'll be talking and smiling to people I have no idea who they are)
Is this normal? Are they all me or am I being schizophrenic?

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TheSortingHat
Adaptability, maybe. Or honesty.
on December 26, 2014
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Wolfaswag
Omg ur just like me :0 life is extremely confusing I ask myself "hmmm what will happen after I die? Hmm I feel useless, hmm they say everyone has a reason to live but what's mine?" Sometimes I feel like nothing but sometimes I literally cry alone asking myself questions and stuff 0.o but I think its completely normal ^•^
Nightcat
Awwwww I got God and stuff to explain a lot of questions, so I'm not as confused as i was
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on September 01, 2014
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RoseHeart
That is pretty Normal actually like when you are around different people you kinda subconsciously kinda change a little to be … I don't know I never studied psychology so yeah but I do know that it's normal
on August 10, 2014
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rue2160
It's actually a very normal question btw
on July 22, 2014
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rue2160
Not everyone needs a label. Just be you and let NO ONE tell you who you are you little divergent rebel, you!
Nightcat
That cheered me up. I just came back from a camp and I'm missing all the awesome people there
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on July 23, 2014
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on July 22, 2014
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MEGS0316
no u r all of them u dont have to label yourself as tomboy or girly or anything like that. ur like me. exactly what u have i am. ur jes very versatile and that means u will most likely have a lot of friends cuz u can relate to most of their likes
on July 21, 2014
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Celia_Bowen
You don't know who you are? You think that all these personality quirks (for want of a better phrase) somehow makes you a not-person or are just really confusing? News: Those quirks make you who you are, a complicated person with many layers. That doesn't make you schizophrenic, it makes you real and it makes you you. Anyone who really knows you can only love you for it.
Nightcat
Ok thanks
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on July 10, 2014
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on July 10, 2014
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kittygirl4133
Three words: Mid-life-crisis.
kittygirl4133
Lol...
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on June 04, 2014
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Nightcat
I'm still only 13.....
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on June 04, 2014
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on June 04, 2014
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MockingjayDistrict
This isn't a dumb question! Just think of yourself as... Divergent. You can go in many directions and be many things. Your still young(ish) and you don't have to decide who you are.
on May 09, 2014
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Elleyd
It's not a dumb question, people often have many different sides to them. I can be mature, quiet, and shy or I can be loud, creative, and stubborn. You're not schizophrenic from what you've told us, you just have a lot of varying "personalities." You sound like a cool person, keep all those personalities, and own them!
on April 18, 2014
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The_Panda_Otaku
Thats basically what I am too.Except for the brother part since I have no siblings.So sounds normal to me even though I don't know you irl.
The_Panda_Otaku
I think I know how you feel when you say that..
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on April 18, 2014
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Nightcat
K thx it's a stupid question I know, but everyone else seems sure about themselves, they're the sporty one, or the pretty one, or the smart one. I feel like I'm a different person with different people
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on April 18, 2014
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Thehost
You are epic!!!!
Nightcat
Nice to hear from.someone who knows me in real life
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on April 18, 2014
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Nightcat
Aw thx
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on April 18, 2014
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on April 18, 2014
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