Do you think I have the right to offended by something that's rude but true?

Do you think I have the right to offended by something that's rude but true?

The other day I was texting a friend of mine about her boy problems(I talk to a lot of friends about their boy problems and just problems in general).While texting I kept thinking about how she was making things more complicated since two diffrent guys liked her.She said she liked one guy and texted the guy she liked this durning a school break and told me they were together.A few days later she texted that she broke up with him cause she still had feelings for the other guy.This has been going on for like a month.When I texted her the other day and said "Complications,yay(Sighing)" she replied with(and with the exact words)"Hey at least I can get a guy lol sorry that was rude" I sat there and just-I couldn't believe it.I knew she'd say this sooner or later but we are TEXTING she could've just deleted it before sending and if she was just typing quickly without thinking why would she put "sorry that was rude" in the same sentence?Anyway I told her it was fine but I was mad,honestly.Thing is she was kinda right which somewhat hurt my feelings.Is it right that I'm offended?

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neefflove
It is a little insensitive for her to say that and you do have a right to be offended, but I find everything is much easier if you try not to take things so seriously. Don't dwell on it, if it's not something you feel comfortable joking about then just let it go. If she is really your friend she didn't mean to hurt your feeling and if your really her friend then don't hold it against her. Also don't put yourself down like that... It's not that you can't get a guy. There is someone See More▼
EclipsedWolf13
This is a really great response.I love reading responses like these cause they're so accurate and real while still being nice and sweet.Its hard for me not to put myself down,and I know it's worse for others,but I try keeping my head up.Thanks for your response,it made me feel way better I think it's perfectly put.
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neefflove
I'm glad I could help some
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Sassy_Mime
You have rights to any and all emotions. You can't stop them, no one else can. It's cool.
EclipsedWolf13
Thanks this means a lot.Im glad me being offended is okay.
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LoneSoul
GIRL YOU HAVE THE RIGHTS TO BE OFFENDED !
EclipsedWolf13
Thanks for not saying I'm being stupid.Im never sure what others will think when I talk about my feelings.I always think they'll tell me that I'm being weird and unreasonable.
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