Is it okay to want a boyfriend at eleven? girls answer only please!!!!

My mom and dad go nuts when they find out I like some boy let alone want to be in a relationship! I want to know what is wrong with that! I already am becoming a woman, I have had my period and a bra, what else do I have to do? Why am I getting yelled at / laughed at when I want a boy companion?

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PoohRocks
1st off no your not wrong its ok to want to have a boyfriend but i really think you should really think it thur cus your 11 your jet now starting to get feels for boys and some boys are not good for thing only want 1 thing and i dont want that for you. My mom was the same way only cus my dad died when i was 7 and she wanted me to be his little girl for ever but i truned 15 got my bae ty and i truned 16 and she is fine with it now she didnt like it at 1st but she jest had to know See More▼
on May 18, 2014
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Laughing_idiot
First: hiiiiiiiiiii hahaha okay so 11 is kinda young to actually HAVE a boyfriend but ur never too young to want one! I wanted a bf at 11 im sure loads of girls did. Lol! If ur parents go kraykrayy dont mention it to them till ur older. I know it sucks but most 11 year old guys are just too dumb idiots still to even want a relationship with anyone yet:/ . Better to wait till ur older trust me! For now just enjoy hangin with friends and chatting and stuff. But you aren't weird See More▼
Laughing_idiot
You're welcommeee
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on November 05, 2013
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izzykitty
thanks!
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Bmac99
11 is pretty young. And just because you have had your period, and are wearing bras does not make you a woman. You're not even a teenager, much less a mature, full grown woman. You're still going through puberty for crying out loud. I'm almost 15 and I don't consider myself even relatively old enough to be considered a mature adult. Sure, I'm old enough to be more independent, but I'm not an adult. And think about this for a second: your parents just want you to make the See More▼
izzykitty
thanks and i know i am not considered a woman yet but i am supposed to be an "lady" and i hate that
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on November 04, 2013
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Bmac99
figure out who you are.
Hope this helps!!!
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on November 03, 2013
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XxlunargirlxX
Nothings wrong with having a boyfriend at 11. You shouldn't get a boyfriend at 10, but perfectly fine at 11!
izzykitty
thx 4 undrestandin
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Gabbigy
I'm in you're position I'm going to be 11 in half a year and still can't have a bf. my mom does like to know if I like someone and I can invite boys to the movies and stuff BUT NO DATING. I completely understand why my mom doesn't want me to have a bf and I respect that.
on March 22
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raihana
no its not wrong at all but ur 2 young dont rush into things n ur parents jus want their little girl wit dem 4 ever
on June 08, 2014
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bobbyboop
I was in ur position... just be in a relationship, an ur parents will figure out what dating meand in the 21st century... trust me, they're old and they don't know what things are like now
on May 16, 2014
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sarahsquishy3
Yup. Seriously go for it. It doesn't matter. Actually I had a boyfriend at the age of 6!!!
on April 25, 2014
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DragonFireGirl8
It's normal. I have a guy-friend which is basically to me, a guy best friend, but we like each other, but we're not together. I know that sounds weird but it's fine girl. xD
on April 16, 2014
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Nightcat
I want a boy best friend it's normal to want to spend time with boys your age
on April 11, 2014
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CatValentine
I'm 11 and I have a boyfriend !!Go ahead judge me just remember to be perfect the rest of ur life
on March 09, 2014
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CatValentine
Totally normal I had a boyfriend at 8
on March 09, 2014
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blackdragon112
i would wait untill i was 13-14 or even 12 before i get into a relationship.be freinds for now.hope it helps
on December 20, 2013
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cutieepie32102
I'm 11 to and my parents say boys are to immature
madison1
some guys can be really immature
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on November 04, 2013
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ActingPower13
11 is pretty young to have a full on relationship with someone. Try to take life slowly, you're only 11. If you really feel that you want a boyfriend, then you can have a boyfriend. It's your decision. But before you decide anything, make sure you think it through!
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madison1
i'm 11 too and i do have a boyfriend he is my first the reason that parents do that is because it's fun i guess for them to see you freak out over it besides my dad always told me i wasn't aloud to date until i was 40 and couldn't get married until he was dead (parents these days) if you do get a boyfriend keep it a secret i did i made one horrid mistake i told my little sister the little snitch but turns out my parents were fine with it they are just messing around don't let See More▼
izzykitty
i am weird
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on November 04, 2013
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madison1
no problem
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on November 03, 2013
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izzykitty
thx
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