I need help with helping someone at my school !!

So theres this girl at my school, and shes over 100+ pounds over weight . I want to help her. but all she does is read, read ,read.... And she puts NO effort in to working out AT ALL ... WHAT SHOULD i DO ????
I want to help her.... mabey even safe her life someday but she has a huge earge to do NOTHING!!!

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SophieLovesLittleMixxx
Invite her over to your house on a day when you do sports bring her along and see if she likes it! after that ye could go for a jog! Maybe talk to her parents and ask then to make her join athletics or swimming! I hope this helps and well done for trying to help her
SophieLovesLittleMixxx
o ok... well its worth a try if u say something to your teacher....if she wont put in an effort then there is no point in even trying. you are being a good person trying to help her she has to be able to see that
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on March 23, 2013
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on March 23, 2013
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kikizoey4me
well...... To be honest I don't think the teachers really care. and if they do I don't see them doing anything. even if they did care she probable wouldn't put any effort in to it.And as far as her parents go... shes adopted and I'm pretty sure she lives with her grandma ......
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on March 23, 2013
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kikizoey4me
To be honest..... I
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on March 23, 2013
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SophieLovesLittleMixxx
yes it will be very hard... have you tried talking to her parents or her teacher? maybe they could have a word with her
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on March 23, 2013
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kikizoey4me
srry..... I have had her over........ she was mean and I couldn't get her out side ;( as u can tell this is going to be hard
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on March 23, 2013
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infinitylynxite
aI know a girl in my grade just like that too. Try to get her to join something athletic or something active. Maybe ask her if she'd like to join a sports team with you or something.
Hope this helps
on February 25, 2013
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madison1
ok umm ask her if she can could come help you lose weight and trick her!
on January 31, 2013
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madison1
ok ask her if she wants to lose weight if she says yes then tell her she needs to help you out by stopping reading go to a big field or something and tell her to run half a lap run with her and do that every day for 2 weeks then on the third week tell her its one full lap and so on hope this helps!
kikizoey4me
She doesn't want to lose weigh tho..... Thats the problem ....... If she wanted to I wouldn't be asking this question
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on January 30, 2013
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laterlake
Invite her over to your house. If its summer go outside and start tossing a football or kicking a soccerball. If you live near a store walk or bike ride to it for the sake of getting exercise. Maybe its winter....Play hide and go seek or simon says. If you live near a YMCA or a public pool go there and swim. But if she doesnt want to do any of this...Dont condsider it a hopeless case. Watch a movie together and provide some healthy snacks like a bowl of apple slices or veggies See More▼
laterlake
Reach out and touch people....You need to...less and less people live on impulse and the feeling of good things...When you feel good...everyone else around you feels good...be open and honest with yourself..cause when you do this you really open up to people...It can help them..and it helps you.. Strive for excellence!
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on July 30, 2013
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kikizoey4me
Its not up to my school .... I don't think they can do anything.... Even if they can I don't think she would agree :'(
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on January 30, 2013
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laterlake
We'll maybe you can speak privately to a teacher at school who can get her counseling or set up a special diet...Like you know what I mean.
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on January 30, 2013
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kikizoey4me
O' and funny story..... Theres a YMCA in my back yard .... Like I can turn around and see it no joke
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on January 29, 2013
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kikizoey4me
Opps.... I meant to say shes been to my house and was really mean to me and .... raised her voice at me... shes adopted i think so shes had a hard time but I really want to help her ..... And I never want her to my house again... She disrespects my personal belongings. I need somthing to help her at my school .....
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on January 29, 2013
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kikizoey4me
Well Thank you.... And
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on January 29, 2013
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Grellthereaper
Do some thing fun with her I have friends like that. Tell them to get there butt up but don't say it in a mean way if she really wants to change her self push her she might not like it but your doing it for her own good!
kikizoey4me
Thanks... But I have tried this approach sadly it did not work. I don't think she wants to change. But I know in her mind she knows she needs to do something.I try to be silly and friendly but she just sticks her head back in to her book/s and yells at me. ( which doesn't make me want to help her.) But I know I need to try SOMETHING !!! I can't just sit there See More▼
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on January 29, 2013
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Karasuno
Leave her alone. Who cares what she weighs? As long as she's happy, that's all that matters.
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Katarina12
She likes books right? Why not make her be a story writer but with the fat use the slim stuff they use in Commercials
on July 02, 2013
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RosenEliza
If she likes reading then that's okay! Tell her you'll give a new book only if she goes on a job with you that should hike up her spirts to want to work out maybe even while your jogging make up a book she might like that too.
RosenEliza
Jog I meant jog
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on June 16, 2013
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Chrissy165
Eat healthy around her. Maybe you'll rub off
on April 09, 2013
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lizzie554
If she wants to change then tell her if she's your friend because you can help her out and that's really awesome and if she doesn't change then you have to pull her away from the books and show her how to workout properly. And help her with what she eats
kikizoey4me
She doesn't want to stop reading... I have tried to get her to play tag and stuff nope... Try to make her laugh nope
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