is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

so my best friend lesly she has a brother that is 14 lesly stared to talk about him and in my mine he looked cute so lesly gave me her phone number so i can call her so i called her wen i got home and she told me if i wanet to text with alejandro leslys brother i was shy to text with him so i said no thank u so me and lesly wr texting and i had to go so i said bye and she said bye so it was like 9;00 pm and i was texting lesly but this time i prtended i was my cousin so me or my couisain said that if he liked janet thats me !!!!!!!!!!! and he said that i had a cute voice so that yhea he liked me so then my cousain said that if he waned to out with me and he said yes so then my cousain me! told alejandro to bring or send a p to sand a picture of him and he said okkkk omg wen i saw him in the ictures he is 100 % cute or hot so is it BAD TO GO OUT WITH A GUY THAT IS 14 AND U R 11!

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Gamerleaflegends
English translation?
damagedhowell
OMG I SNORTED
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Blue_star
OINK
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on July 16
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on November 27, 2016
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on March 31, 2016
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catesonskates
That's not dating. That's babysitting.
vintagebird
My parents r ten years apart, but u should not be dating if u r eleven
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on July 06, 2013
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catesonskates
My parents went trough high school together, spent five years dating, married, two years later had me. They are the same age. At 11( my age ) no body should be dating.
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on April 07, 2013
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bluechick65
no its not ok so it's 4 years but ask your parents how far are they away from each other my parents are 5 years apart and you say 11 to 14 is bad
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on April 07, 2013
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on March 29, 2013
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chookity.dookity
11 isn't a good age to date
Nor 14
They shouldn't be dating, in my opinion. They should wait until they're both a bit older.
rosalie13hale
ageed
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on November 21, 2015
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xKearax
well, I'm 11 and I wouldn't even think about going on a date with a boy, never mind going out with a 14 year old!
rosalie13hale
it is ok to go but there would be future problems u may be not mature enough for him and it would be hard to adjust and u guys are having attraction and it will wear of soon
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sisaloofafump
same
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on May 24, 2015
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xKearax
mhm
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on March 16, 2013
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Beauty784
Same!
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on March 16, 2013
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on December 17, 2012
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sisaloofafump
You guys realize that if Lesley was 11 at the time, she is now thirteen or fourteen.
on November 17, 2015
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GalacticBiRavenclaw
Please-

Check your spelling and grammar. Are you seriously too lazy to type?
on June 04, 2015
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ellotherelove
CHECK YOUR SPELLING
on May 23, 2015
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transformers
I cant even answer this question because there is literally no grammar and I cant even understand what you are saying.
rosalie13hale
same here
but understood from the replies a bit
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on June 29, 2017
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succubussteve
lol, true
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on February 27, 2016
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on September 12, 2015
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JayCity02
If a couple is more than two years apart then they shouldn't go out. If they're kids
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Jadechloeaxel
I am 10 turning 11 soon and I agree with Kearahodge01 I would never I agree completely with kearahodge01
on January 27, 2013
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that.little.muffin
Relationships are emotionally exhausting, trust me. An eleven year old shouldn't have to go through all that, I feel like you need to be a tad older and more mature.
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NetherWorks
Nop.
NetherWorks
My mum and dad are 5 years apart
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gnocchi
yes, but age gaps don't really matter when you're an adult. there's a difference between a 34 year old dating a 39 year old and an eleven year old, say, dating a sixteen year old.
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Drake23
11 years old probably shouldn't date, maybe until after college, cause that's when relationships really flower.
Drake23
Usually
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on November 18, 2015
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TinyOtaku
Maybe when your like in middle school. Age differences don't matter.
on September 14, 2015
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Rainbow_Fluff
It is love. Love is love, no matter what gender, race, or age :3
rosalie13hale
or it can be attraction
a 11 year old may not be able to adjust with him
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Mataways
Maybe wait until you are middle school
But wow
All the couples I have seen are like 5 years apart
My dad is 10 years older than my mom
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Derpyderpjuice
Depends.
11years old is 5th grade and 14 years old is old enough for high school.

It's illegal for a high schooler to date an elementary student.

But if your in middle school it is fine
Blue_star
11 is actually in 6th grade but mk
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Derpyderpjuice
11 can be 5th grade and 14 can be 9th
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gnocchi
it's not illegal unless the high schooler is 18 or older.
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gnocchi
ack law enforcement pays attention to who the eleven-year-olds are dating??
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Derpyderpjuice
@pastrami
It's illegal for my state
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GoldPing
this girl is 16 now btw lol
on November 07, 2017
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xenacanthus
Think of it this way, if you stay together long term, he'll be 34 when you're 31. Not even a thing. It's all relative. 11 seems young, but I don't judge. You know yourself better than anyone else.
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blurryirony
Well, if you feel mature enough. I would question your maturity in the grammar area...
on February 20, 2016
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SenpaiDawn
perfectly fine, I see it as a 3 year difference. but if it was a 17 year old liking a 12 year old... that's weird
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Cece_souldja_bowe
Yes he is most likely using her
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That.1.Otaku.Named.Maya
If your 11 and hes 13 that's not bad. Your just 3 years apart in age.
vintagebird
I agree with AlexandriaMalik
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AlexandriaMalik
He is 14. And no one should be dating a 11.
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nataliaSA
Ok look I don't understand u at the end but I think u shoiuld try him out
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Nobody.07
... i don't think it is bad. If you know him more than just his picture and his sister. Other than that, I think you should go on a few dates first, like double dates, then see if you even get along. THEN see if he is boyfriend material Good Luck!! Especially with that age gap
Beauty784
Yeah!
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lolgamer3
nah m8 not in my opinion
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Zanvis_Garrance_Vylante
If you both feel the same way about each other and you both agree. Agreement is key to make young love happen
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Blue_star
and also if your pretending your your cousin and saying that your COUSIN went out with YOU then like thats weird cause like cousins arent supposed to go out with eachother cause they are related and thats weird
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Blue_star
do you know anything about him besides he is hot btw?
cause like how do you know he is a good person?
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Blue_star
um, yes
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