is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

so my best friend lesly she has a brother that is 14 lesly stared to talk about him and in my mine he looked cute so lesly gave me her phone number so i can call her so i called her wen i got home and she told me if i wanet to text with alejandro leslys brother i was shy to text with him so i said no thank u so me and lesly wr texting and i had to go so i said bye and she said bye so it was like 9;00 pm and i was texting lesly but this time i prtended i was my cousin so me or my couisain said that if he liked janet thats me !!!!!!!!!!! and he said that i had a cute voice so that yhea he liked me so then my cousain said that if he waned to out with me and he said yes so then my cousain me! told alejandro to bring or send a p to sand a picture of him and he said okkkk omg wen i saw him in the ictures he is 100 % cute or hot so is it BAD TO GO OUT WITH A GUY THAT IS 14 AND U R 11!

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Gamerleaflegends
English translation?
twinkfantasy
OMG I SNORTED
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Blue_star
OINK
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on July 16, 2018
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on November 27, 2016
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on March 31, 2016
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catesonskates
That's not dating. That's babysitting.
vintagebird
My parents r ten years apart, but u should not be dating if u r eleven
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on July 06, 2013
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catesonskates
My parents went trough high school together, spent five years dating, married, two years later had me. They are the same age. At 11( my age ) no body should be dating.
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on April 07, 2013
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bluechick65
no its not ok so it's 4 years but ask your parents how far are they away from each other my parents are 5 years apart and you say 11 to 14 is bad
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on April 07, 2013
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on March 29, 2013
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your.cool.grandma
11 isn't a good age to date
Nor 14
They shouldn't be dating, in my opinion. They should wait until they're both a bit older.
rosalie13hale
ageed
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on June 29, 2017
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threebeltking
You guys realize that if Lesley was 11 at the time, she is now thirteen or fourteen.
Suzuki
Wow, she's twenty now...
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xKearax
well, I'm 11 and I wouldn't even think about going on a date with a boy, never mind going out with a 14 year old!
rosalie13hale
it is ok to go but there would be future problems u may be not mature enough for him and it would be hard to adjust and u guys are having attraction and it will wear of soon
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on June 29, 2017
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threebeltking
same
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on May 24, 2015
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xKearax
mhm
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on March 16, 2013
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Beauty784
Same!
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on March 16, 2013
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GalacticBiRavenclaw
Please-

Check your spelling and grammar. Are you seriously too lazy to type?
on June 04, 2015
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transformers
I cant even answer this question because there is literally no grammar and I cant even understand what you are saying.
rosalie13hale
same here
but understood from the replies a bit
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on June 29, 2017
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succubussteve
lol, true
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on February 27, 2016
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ellotherelove
CHECK YOUR SPELLING
on May 23, 2015
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Jrenner
This question is so outdated this person is at least 17 now lol
on April 18, 2019
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GoldPing
this girl is 16 now btw lol
on November 07, 2017
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JayCity02
If a couple is more than two years apart then they shouldn't go out. If they're kids
on March 15, 2015
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Jadechloeaxel
I am 10 turning 11 soon and I agree with Kearahodge01 I would never I agree completely with kearahodge01
on January 27, 2013
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EclairSlayer712
14 is fine, but 11 is not
on April 17, 2019
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pxdmeskywalker
Relationships are emotionally exhausting, trust me. An eleven year old shouldn't have to go through all that, I feel like you need to be a tad older and more mature.
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bussy
Age doesn't matter if it's true love ?

edit: legality does
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bussy
SHUR UP I WAS DATING SOMEONE 4 YEARS OLDER THAN ME
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Blue_star
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?
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on July 16, 2018
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Drake23
11 years old probably shouldn't date, maybe until after college, cause that's when relationships really flower.
Drake23
Usually
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TinyOtaku
Maybe when your like in middle school. Age differences don't matter.
on September 14, 2015
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Rainbow_Fluff
It is love. Love is love, no matter what gender, race, or age :3
rosalie13hale
or it can be attraction
a 11 year old may not be able to adjust with him
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nataliaSA
Ok look I don't understand u at the end but I think u shoiuld try him out
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Nobody.07
... i don't think it is bad. If you know him more than just his picture and his sister. Other than that, I think you should go on a few dates first, like double dates, then see if you even get along. THEN see if he is boyfriend material :) Good Luck!! Especially with that age gap
Beauty784
Yeah!
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yiiffart2
as a kid, you should only date within your grade, and then highschool allows for more fluidity but 18 year olds shouldnt go out with 14 / 15 year olds. thats how it is
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TheDarksideOfTheMoon
No, u can date whoever you want!
on January 28, 2021
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BlueTheQuizWhiz97
I'm 14 (turning 15 april) and I'm dating a 12 year old so...
I don't know, do what feels right
yiiffart2
you sound like youre really unpopular with the people youre expected to socialize with
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BlueTheQuizWhiz97
Nope. Not really. My friends actually support our relationship @yiiffart2
To me age doesn't matter, unless its a lot older or younger then me. Then it gets weird. But this feels completely natural, and I am very lucky to have my Hyun
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on February 08, 2021
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pxdmeskywalker
if he's 14 and goes on a date with an 11-year old that's predatory and definitely not okay.
on January 25, 2021
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mizuki_moonchild
XD wow thats alot lol i guess it doesnt really matter its what you want
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lolgamer3
nah m8 not in my opinion
on November 08, 2018
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All_hail_Melon_King
Maybe wait until you are middle school
But wow
All the couples I have seen are like 5 years apart
My dad is 10 years older than my mom
TakatoxJunta
My mom and dad are 14 years apart TwT
And where never dating and my mom thought she wouldn't get pregnant soooooooo yeah I technically a mistake
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Blue_star
and also if your pretending your your cousin and saying that your COUSIN went out with YOU then like thats weird cause like cousins arent supposed to go out with eachother cause they are related and thats weird
on July 16, 2018
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Blue_star
do you know anything about him besides he is hot btw?
cause like how do you know he is a good person?
on July 16, 2018
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Blue_star
um, yes
on July 16, 2018
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