is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy??

so my best friend lesly she has a brother that is 14 lesly stared to talk about him and in my mine he looked cute so lesly gave me her phone number so i can call her so i called her wen i got home and she told me if i wanet to text with alejandro leslys brother i was shy to text with him so i said no thank u so me and lesly wr texting and i had to go so i said bye and she said bye so it was like 9;00 pm and i was texting lesly but this time i prtended i was my cousin so me or my couisain said that if he liked janet thats me !!!!!!!!!!! and he said that i had a cute voice so that yhea he liked me so then my cousain said that if he waned to out with me and he said yes so then my cousain me! told alejandro to bring or send a p to sand a picture of him and he said okkkk omg wen i saw him in the ictures he is 100 % cute or hot so is it BAD TO GO OUT WITH A GUY THAT IS 14 AND U R 11!

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catesonskates
That's not dating. That's babysitting.
vintagebird
My parents r ten years apart, but u should not be dating if u r eleven
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on July 06, 2013
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catesonskates
My parents went trough high school together, spent five years dating, married, two years later had me. They are the same age. At 11( my age ) no body should be dating.
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on April 07, 2013
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bluechick65
no its not ok so it's 4 years but ask your parents how far are they away from each other my parents are 5 years apart and you say 11 to 14 is bad
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on April 07, 2013
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on March 29, 2013
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xKearax
well, I'm 11 and I wouldn't even think about going on a date with a boy, never mind going out with a 14 year old!
sisaloofafump
same
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on May 24, 2015
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xKearax
mhm
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on March 16, 2013
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Beauty784
Same!
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on March 16, 2013
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on December 17, 2012
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pathetic.aesthetic
11 isn't a good age to date
Nor 14
They shouldn't be dating, in my opinion. They should wait until they're both a bit older.
on November 21, 2015
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Gamerleaflegends
English translation?
galactic.milo
OMG I SNORTED
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on November 27, 2016
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on March 31, 2016
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sisaloofafump
You guys realize that if Lesley was 11 at the time, she is now thirteen or fourteen.
on November 17, 2015
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ellotherelove
CHECK YOUR SPELLING
on May 23, 2015
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Iceland
I can't date till I'm 16
RebeliousDoorknob
Can't date till i move out
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RebeliousDoorknob
Which is like 20 in my fam
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on May 24, 2016
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on November 20, 2015
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TricksterOfLife
I cant even answer this question because there is literally no grammar and I cant even understand what you are saying.
succubussteve
lol, true
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on February 27, 2016
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on September 12, 2015
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Jadechloeaxel
I am 10 turning 11 soon and I agree with Kearahodge01 I would never I agree completely with kearahodge01
on January 27, 2013
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TheBiRavenclaw
Please-

Check your spelling and grammar. Are you seriously too lazy to type?
on June 04, 2015
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Rainbow_Fluff
It is love. Love is love, no matter what gender, race, or age :3
on May 24, 2015
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JayCity02
If a couple is more than two years apart then they shouldn't go out. If they're kids
on March 15, 2015
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nataliaSA
Ok look I don't understand u at the end but I think u shoiuld try him out
on October 12, 2012
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Nobody.07
... i don't think it is bad. If you know him more than just his picture and his sister. Other than that, I think you should go on a few dates first, like double dates, then see if you even get along. THEN see if he is boyfriend material Good Luck!! Especially with that age gap
Beauty784
Yeah!
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on March 16, 2013
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on October 09, 2012
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Phandom_Trash_Number_One
Well love is love
on November 19, 2015
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AvengersPuddinAndTwinsie
on November 16, 2015
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LilianaTheTiger
Maybe when your like in middle school. Age differences don't matter.
on September 14, 2015
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SenpaiDawn
perfectly fine, I see it as a 3 year difference. but if it was a 17 year old liking a 12 year old... that's weird
on September 11, 2015
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Cece_souldja_bowe
Yes he is most likely using her
on April 05, 2014
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That.1.Otaku.Named.Maya
If your 11 and hes 13 that's not bad. Your just 3 years apart in age.
vintagebird
I agree with AlexandriaMalik
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on July 06, 2013
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AlexandriaMalik
on June 25, 2013
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AlexandriaMalik
He is 14. And no one should be dating a 11.
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loverchicka
no its only bad if ur over 8 years apart my friends are 12 and 15 and they're are dating and in a very happy relationship
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Hikari_Chan
hmm..I don't think it is good to date in that young age..well after some years u can ...
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MaylatheGalacticWolf
on February 26
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Cloudedstar
yes it is
on February 21, 2016
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blurryirony
Well, if you feel mature enough. I would question your maturity in the grammar area...
on February 20, 2016
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EllieVampire_The_vampirehumanlover
some of the pros and cons could be
Pros:
he could be very nice
he could treat you right
he could be the sweetest boyfriend ever
Cons:
he could find someone else who is his age See More▼
on December 02, 2015
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EllieVampire_The_vampirehumanlover
yes and no, there are pros and cons of the situations and figure those out first and then make your decision just saying he could dump you for someone else, so it's up to you but i would figure out my pros and cons first
on December 02, 2015
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Drake23
11 years old probably shouldn't date, maybe until after college, cause that's when relationships really flower.
Drake23
Usually
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DipperPinesShades
No. Dippers likes Wendy. (Wow, I just made a GF reference!!)
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Shimo
NAW!
on August 22, 2015
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