I need help with friendship

Okay, so I don't make friends easily, and I finally have some friends at church, and I'm freaked out a little bit because I have no idea how to handle friendships! What do I do? I don't want to lose any more friends!

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magicalmonique
Just be yourself and talk about things you all like. If they say something that reminds you of an experience you had, share it with them and the conversation will continue to build from there.
The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
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Marvele
Express who you are but also do what they want. If your personality clashes with something about them, sometimes you have to just suck it up and go with it.
The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
Yeah, I kinda just go along with everything, so that won't be a problem.
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Marvele
`/`
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
Sometimes. I'm just really REALLY shy with people I don't know.
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Marvele
Do you speak up in class?
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
Thanks, but it's just hard when you're like the loner in school.
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Marvele
You don't need 'enough' friends. You have friends. Does it matter if they're online or offline? No. You have friends. There is no proper amount of quantity of friends.
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
I don't have a good self esteem. I always think I'm not pretty. I'm not popular. I don't have enough friends. No one likes me.
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Marvele
That's your problem. You don't have to be overly confident but you do have to have a good self-esteem.
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
Yeah, I don't have a lot of confidence. I think in real life, no one likes me. Yeah, I do what they want, and they do what I want pretty much.
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Marvele
However, they have to do what you want, as well. I'm guessing you don't have much self-confidence. You have to realise that no one can tell you what to do, however you have to realise that sometimes you have to do what others want as well.
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Straight_Outta_Snuggie
just be yourself
your friends would rather you act like yourself instead of acting like someone you are not
The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
But I don't know what myself is.
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
Yeah, lol.
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Straight_Outta_Snuggie
I blame the typos on my computer
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
@Marvele okay.
@Calista_The_Hedgehog It's okay, just some typos.
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Marvele
It's okay, it just stresses me SO much.
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Straight_Outta_Snuggie
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Marvele
Then don't think about it. Just act how you feel is right. Also, @Calista_The_Hedgehog, please, please, PLEASE check what you write.
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Straight_Outta_Snuggie
just like me (except I crazy and weird most of the time)
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The_Cute_Cheetah_Girl
I honestly don't know. Around some people, I'm quiet, around others I'm crazy and weird, and around others, I'm normal. I change all the time. I don't think I even have a personality.
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Straight_Outta_Snuggie
what do you ussally act like
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