how do I get over my fear?

Well I'm scared to talk to my friends at choir, sometimes I talk to them sometimes I don't. I think I'm scared cause I don't really know the kids at my choir. I talk to them sometimes but I don't really know what to say, so how do I get over my fear and just talk to them, what should I say to start a conversation without getting scared.and the people at my choir are very nice people.

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Daniel.Rauch
Whoa okay I face this problem all the time when I'm face to face with some one, my mind goes on lock down and I can't think straight.
So you said your in a choir, if your a Christian do the simple and ask God to calm you down a bit, if your not just take a deep breath and hold for a second to clear your head. Try to pay attention to what your friends are doing and ask them how its going, ask them how their doing and what's new just try and keep it simple, and it should run.

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JayCity02
Okay well I already asked god about last week, but yesterday I was talking to everybody.
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on January 30, 2015
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Pepper.Pet
I'm not afraid of anything
on January 25, 2015
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Ducki
You could say hi, and perhaps ask some questions? OR! Tell them they have a great voice or something; complement them.
on January 21, 2015
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Ducki
Bro, sorry... I had the same problem when I was in chorus... And I didn't get over it...
on January 21, 2015
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foilflingza
Well, you could just stat by saying hi. You could learn each others interests and likes and dislikes. I do it all the time. It keeps a running conversation :p
JayCity02
Thanks ?
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foilflingza
No problem anytime :)
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on January 21, 2015
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