NOT Liking Boys

NOT Liking Boys

So, I have finally figured it out that none of the girls in my class have ever liked any of the boys they dated/are dating. This annoying girl I know (who thinks she is my friend) keeps telling me "Tell me when you start liking boys- it means you're maturing!" So, my question is, is it ok to not like boys at age 13? And does it mean that I may be slightly more mature than the girls around me by realizing this, or less because I still don't like boys?

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McDermottsAngel
I'm 13 too, and I think that boys my own age are disgusting, uncultured little brats. Nobody is fitting to my idea of a good boyfriend. I can LITERALLY ONLY fall in love with people older than me that I can't have, like fictional characters, celebrities and teachers. And I definitely can't fall in love in the middlr of an obsession. And since I ALWAYS have an obsession, I don't fall in love. The last time I had a crush on s boy I actually knew was seven years ago. I was five years See More▼
TheSortingHat
THANK YOU! GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE!
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McDermottsAngel
People think they're in love, but what they think is love is a cautionary, momentary, reactionary lie.
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on October 03, 2014
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McDermottsAngel
Heh heh, no problem.

This is what it is like at my school:

The other girls: -texting their boyfriends- OMG, Snookums hasn't texted me back!

Me: -on Twitter- Oh my gosh, Mika still isn't acknowledging my existence!
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hesitantalien
it's normal don't worry. You're 13 so you have more time to figure out what you like.
on March 29, 2015
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Fej123
You may not like boys, or anybody all together. That's perfectly natural. Maybe you are straight and just have to meet the right guy but I wouldn't be able to tell unless I knew you personally
on February 27
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tomboysquirrel
Well I started liking boys at 9, but it's different with everyone, just don't date a boy u don't actually like because it's not fair to him.
on October 25, 2015
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magic101
I guess at 13 you start finding boys interesting ya know, but I think it's too young to date. Espicially since 13 year old boys are immature idiots because they just turned teens. Don't worry I also see people dating at my school, but I can see that the boys act stupid. It's totally normal if you don't want to date.
on October 31, 2014
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Sassy_Mime
If you start having those feelings it's fine! A normal teen thing... :3 just be careful. Some aren't good. I've been with my guy for 2 years. It's cuz I found a not idiot one... :3
on October 22, 2014
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xxredfeatherx
Its ok now to date a boy! Heck i don't even like any boys! Well accept for fictional ones but thats besides the point! and yes you are more mature you know that don't bother with them and get a hobby!
on October 10, 2014
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sapphirethehedgehog
I'm the same age as you and I don't like boys in the way most girls do. I mean it's okay to like a guy but if your just doing it for attention then that's just plain silly.
on October 03, 2014
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Elleyd
Romance has nothing to do with maturity. You're only 13 so have some patience, a boy will come along and impress you. It will come. It may not though of you're questioning your sexuality but that's a different topic. You're friend is wrong don't worry about it.
on October 03, 2014
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RoseHeart
Of course it is totally fine, I'm about your age and I don't really like boys. Even if I did like boys, what's the point? I'm not going to date till high school. ( seriously it will be awkward asking your mom to take you to a date )
on October 03, 2014
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