i need help, this could mean life or death :(
hey guys,well....you see....i cut myself....and i don't know if i should stop or not i don't know what to do i love you guys but,*sighs* i just--i need help,any advice?
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Don't cut yourself, instead ask someone for help on your feelings or find any little thing that makes you happy.
on May 26, 2020
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Cutting doesn't mean your gonna die, but you are on the road to it. So, you should try hideing your blade, or contacting a helpline.
on January 30, 2016
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Hey, just because you cut doesn't mean you will die. But you could be getting towords a suisidal state...you should try to cry, crying is a better way to release pain insted of self harm.
on December 30, 2015
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GIRL. LISTEN TO ME. I used to cut too. I was depressed, everything seemed to spiral downwards in my life back then. But I met great people as I walk through. I've met my best friend, A crush, Great upper-classmen. And my family. You don't have to walk alone, people are there for you. We're here. So, why not throw the razors away, and maybe start anew? :D
on December 14, 2014
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Stop. You can't do things like that to yourself. Tell a trusted adult. Like NOW
on March 14, 2014
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Dont waste your life. You cut yourself with a knife (or whatever you cut yourself with) just call your doctor and make an appointment. Its fine. You can survive.:)
on March 12, 2014
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From experience I can tell you, it's dangerous but probably not as deadly as you think. Still, try to pick up a healthier habit. Whatever's going on, don't give into it. If it's bullying (from parents, teachers, classmates, the world in general) do you really want to give into their stupidities??? Because they're wrong. If it's stress, draw, paint, scream, walk, run, sleep, do hw...just do something to get you out of your mind while the urge goes away. What I did to stop was give See More▼ myself treats for every day I didn't even scratch myself. One day I'd promise myself that I'd get myself ice cream, another that I would allow myself to sleep in longer, another that I'd allow myself to listen to my favourite song, etc.
It's the small battles that count. Throw away whatever you use to cut yourself with. If that's gone, it'll be harder to get another one.
As for the scars: bracelets, scar cream, and cover up. It's been 6 years since I stopped cutting and the scars are almost all healed and cleared up :) You'll get through this!!! Whatever you're going through just remember, it's a phase. You remember when you were 5 and you thought it was the end of the world to get homework? You barely remember that now, huh? Same thing with the issues you're going through. Years later, you'll look back and laugh and try to help someone going through what you did by telling them how things that seem like the end of the world now really aren't as bad compared to the AMAZING things down the road.
It's the small battles that count. Throw away whatever you use to cut yourself with. If that's gone, it'll be harder to get another one.
As for the scars: bracelets, scar cream, and cover up. It's been 6 years since I stopped cutting and the scars are almost all healed and cleared up :) You'll get through this!!! Whatever you're going through just remember, it's a phase. You remember when you were 5 and you thought it was the end of the world to get homework? You barely remember that now, huh? Same thing with the issues you're going through. Years later, you'll look back and laugh and try to help someone going through what you did by telling them how things that seem like the end of the world now really aren't as bad compared to the AMAZING things down the road.
on March 11, 2014
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Hi my name is destiny and I cut myself too because of depression and etc. but I don't know if this will help but sometimes it helps me to stop cutting it's kind of like a poem but every time I get some alone time I would say this out loud and it helps me sometimes: "Call me a slut, Call me a hore, if you don't like me there's the door. Call me anorexic, Call me fat, I can put it on or I can lose that. Call me annoying, Call me dumb, excuse me miss I'm having fun. Call me a flirt, See More▼ Call me fake, that's just me so give me a break. Call me weird, call me a geek: Call me what you want, I'm just UNIQUE".
I hope this helps a little
By the way cutting may be addictive like it was for me because I did it on a daily basis because of people would call me names and make fun of me but cutting is not the answer.
I hope you feel better because I don't want to see you icture on the paper or news your my family in gods way and I love you ok !?! ^-^
I hope this helps a little
By the way cutting may be addictive like it was for me because I did it on a daily basis because of people would call me names and make fun of me but cutting is not the answer.
I hope you feel better because I don't want to see you icture on the paper or news your my family in gods way and I love you ok !?! ^-^
on March 10, 2014
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Cutting yourself is only gonna make things worse than they already are. What's going on? Bulling, abusement? There is no reason to hurt yourself if others are already hurting you. It will only make things get horrible. You'll have scars that people will ask about. Let me help. What's wrong?
on March 10, 2014
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ok, first off, cutting yourself never does anyone any good, and if you can message me why you do, if it is the same thing that happened to me, I will help you through it, you aren't alone
on March 10, 2014
