Friends Fallout: What do I do?
My friend text me the other day saying she didn't want to be friends any more. Then she said she did want to be friends. She has done this several times, and it has upset me a lot. This is the third time she has done this over the space of 2 months. Should I give her another chance, and risk her upsetting me again, or do I move on and forget her? Please tell me what to do!
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She is basicly been told something and trying to choose to be your freind or not i will of kick to the curb and make new freinds<3
on June 15, 2014
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Don't give her another shot! I had a friend who did this, and it really annoyed my other, true, friends. The next time she says you 2 aren't friends, it's over.
on April 08, 2014
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Kick her to the curb she's playing mind games with you. That's stuff I did when I was in 1st grade. I had a friend named Ashley in the 1st grade and we were constantly saying we didn't want to be friends with each other. It's little girl stuff. And she doesn't sound like a good friend. Any good friend wouldn't treat you like that.
on September 05, 2013
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You NEED to move on and forget her, even if you are friends again now. She really has no right to keep doing this to you, and just isn't worth it.
No! You have to be firm! I've known people like that, they're tricking you! Just because she's being nice now, doesn't mean it will last. Drop her. At least talk to her, and give her a warning.
on August 18, 2013
Out of the kindness of my heart, I just can't help but forgive her. But if it does happen again...
on August 18, 2013
on August 18, 2013
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I currently lost my best friends too, because apparently they both talk behind my back and lie constantly, so if your friend is saying she doesn't want to be friends, without hesitation say "okay" And leave her. It may be hard but if you stay friends with her there's going to be a more painful truth coming that you won't want (I've been through it) so it's best to go get new friends.
on May 26, 2020
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Ask her what's up and why she keeps doing that. Maybe she'll realize what she's doing, and stay your friend. If she does it again after you talk to her, then move on. Hope this helps!
on August 17, 2013
