help! help!! help!!! Help! Help!! Help!!! HELP! HELP!! HELP!!!

help! help!! help!!! Help! Help!! Help!!! HELP! HELP!! HELP!!!

OK, so my friend Grace is being bullied. I have drawn a picture with some of the things that has been said to her on it because qfeast wouldn't allow me to type it, it's the question picture. She has become very depressed and has started selfharming... What do I do? And, more importantly, what should she do?!

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Gothgirlemolover
I went through worse for the whole of my life, I tried to kill my self, cut my self. Eventually I ended up nearly killing someone. Fortunately/unfortunately I got sent to a mental hospital and not prison. That is how bad it can get. The one mistake I made is I tried to handle it on my own. TELL AN ADULT
KiraOsborne
ok, thanks! will do!
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on August 05, 2013
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kelsi
i went through the same thing i self harmed for years what i had to do was get a consaler and try to get help and if she doesnt want help then just be there for her and try to help get through this what i did was draw ir write how i felt that day or i wrote poatry i hope this helped and if you ever need a little bit more help come talk to me ill try yo help the best way i can
on July 22, 2013
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stonecold
You should tell a adult because it can be worse,abd you dnt want nothing to happen to her
on July 21, 2013
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iloveawsomeness12
Tell an adult
on July 21, 2013
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Acacia_The_Goddess
Tell her mom is what you should do. And She should, A. Tell them to stop. If the Bully just shoves her, then stick up for her and shove the bully back
on July 21, 2013
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Mary_chan
well you need to confront the people who are bullying her.. first of all and tell them to knock that crap off...and if that doesn't work you need to tell an adult... and if all else fails give them a good beating. ~hope that helps.. :3
Mary_chan
heh I wouldn't trust me though... I have an obsession over a phycho path murderer and I also cosplay as one.. so I'm not the best advice giver
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on July 20, 2013
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Mary_chan
well that can be useful
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on July 20, 2013
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KiraOsborne
well, I am known for being the strongest girl in my year... and I'm stronger than all the boys so...
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Mawwy
i was bullied in first grade and told my parents well my dad took some action for it but my mom just made fun of me and she still does!! I mean for God's sake it's been 9 years so the best advice i can come up with is the either u can change school ir tell someone like if you have good parents then tell them they can take some actions!!
on July 20, 2013
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ChokolatLover
Report this to a parent or a guardian. I know bullies always threaten you like if you tell then... But trust me it's the best thing to do. If she's self harming then I think you should definitely tell someone as they could help her, that's the best thing to do!
ChokolatLover
Oh and here's a song you should send her!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=I-G8IfjPAII
And also if you want tell her this:
Never give up. You only get one life. Go for it!
Or don't give up because you are loved. See More▼
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on July 20, 2013
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ChokolatLover
Great! I hope everything will work out and your friend will stop being bullied! Good luck!
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KiraOsborne
yeah, I will DEFINITELY support my... friend...
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on July 20, 2013
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ChokolatLover
Oh yeah and support your friend too. She needs you too.
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glowgirl18
turn in the bully slap the bully and stick to your friend like glue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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HeroSkyDreadmalV2
1. you are good at drawing xD
2. try to convince her to stop self harming!
3. step up for her, show the bullies who is an upstander.
4. hope you enjoy my tips xD
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bluebear0914
Talk to an adult or her parent
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snoochie23
try to stand up for her or tell the nearest person she is being bullied. Bully's get there power from no one standing up to them. Trust me i have been bullied a lot in my life.
on April 16, 2015
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HeroDeredmalSkylarV2
You are good at drawing is the good part XXDD ok so you need help huh? well idk xDD sorry! i dont have time xD
on April 15, 2015
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Nightcat
Is she ok now? Or better?
Nightcat
o_0 praying for her ( might not mean much to you if you're an atheist but )
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on March 03, 2014
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KiraOsborne
They've started to stop but shes still selfharming loads and shes got a therapy group and stuff but im dead worried about her! -.-
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sisaloofafump
-tell the bullies that if they want to bully your friend anymore they'd have to get past you!! Then hold your ground.

- just tell her to ignore them because they don't really mean it and they might not understand that it actually hurts.

- the bullies probably don't have a good life at home and you should tell the bullies and an adult about how it does hurt to be bullied.

-tell your friend to be come a wall so the words bounce off. (it's what i do and it works really well.) See More▼
sisaloofafump
glad to help.
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on March 06, 2014
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KiraOsborne
I will do! Thanks for the advice!
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planetfroot
Fight the bullies!! like a boss.
ONLY KIDDING XD you should tell an adult (principal) but. Don't fight!!
on December 22, 2013
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Lara_Laufeyson
Support her, protect her from bullies, and always go with her, block the words that hurt her, comfort her and most of all pray for her
sisaloofafump
good idea but she should build a wall as well.
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Saokiba
Tell her to stop i know what ur thinking oh another great idea (not) but be firm and keep trying be her rock and be there for her it helps allot of that doesn't work
In a month then get help from a adult
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puglover3000
Um, do what everybody else said i guess!
on July 21, 2013
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Tigers_eye
BTW nice drawing minus the words
KiraOsborne
ill put them on later
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TheJasMister
yay when can we see them
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on July 20, 2013
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KiraOsborne
haha, thanks... im gonna take a photo with my ipad of all 15 drawings ive been working on and ill put them on here!
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Tigers_eye
Fighting doesn't get you ANYWHERE. Tell a responsible adult, someone you and Grace trust. Whatever you do give her support. She needs some help by a grown-up. Good luck Kira and tell her it's gonna be fine!
TheJasMister
i agree
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KiraOsborne
haha, i know, i know...
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