my girlfriend broke up with me help?
My relationship has just ended, i met my girl late feb 2012, seen her for the following 6 weeks then made it official in early april 2012, im 26 now but 25 at the time she was only 17, she was obsessed with me , very clingy always wanted to stay over , would jump at the chance to spend time with she was amazing , but it come at wrong time i was out of work but everything still went great, but after a bit the routine was the same , doing the same thing but we still loved each other so much she even got my name tattoed on her which i did try and talk her out of it, that was december 2012, then i met her family well her dad in march i had already met her mum earlier last year, and she adored me even the last time i seen her , and she would sayn over facebook txt how much she loved me every day until ab t 3 weeks ago i upset her because i was jst annoyed at something and said"are we done then/finished" which didnt mean , "so she said your finishing me??????" and all that day she blanked me all my msges for like 2 days , then said she needed space, out of know where she's never been like that if anything i felt we needed space because we talked to much every day and it was the same thing all the time, and i couldnt help my myself so i kept msging her for the following week, she only replied bluntly, and cold with "dont know what i want" that sort of thing, and because i kept msging her she said "sorry i cant do this know more" then said she felt bad and wanted to meet clear the air i ignored her for the day, and she wanted to talk and take things from there start a fresh, and a week later she deletes me off facebook because i said "ah forget waiting we need to talk now rather than later" and once she deletd me she said she dont feel the same about me anymore because i kept msging her and it put her off" ive tried everything for closure and to jst talk, she igores my messags and she replies with "stop going on" this has ripped me apart inside, how can her feelings change so soon, and act like im nothing to her, when before this she loves me the world, her words, now im nothing to her? ive said all i could logically and emotionally but shes not interested, a loving /adorable/caring//amazing girl to what i can only see as "hate" from my part, help would be great, a brillaint relationship with a horrible break it makes it harder
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go to her parents house she is most likely there if she is not ask her parents if they know if they dont tell you tell them how much she means to you and that you didn't mean what you said and that she needs to know that your sorry if they then tell you where she is then go to where she is and tell her that you love her and how much she means to you if she still doesn't like you buy her a promis ring and tons of stuffed animals and her fav flowers and tell her you wont let her See More▼ go and that she means so much to you make sure she knows you mean it too i hope this helps! good luck! and if she really loved or loves you she will forgive you
on April 07, 2013
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Tell her that she is a shining diamond when all is dark and grey, and that she causes the drizzle to slow and it will morph into a shining azure sky with ivory clouds. Give her some roses, complete with shining dew, and a small box of chocolates, with a note. The note should have a poem on it, such as "You are my life/ I don't know what I'd do without you/ Please don't leave me/ I didn't mean what I said about you." Avoid humor in this situation because she's likely to think you're See More▼ just joking with her. She most likely to enjoy a quiet afternoon on a non-crowded beach or something like that. Take her someplace where you can be alone, such as a classy restaurant. This is coming from a girl myself, so I really think you should take my advice.
on September 23, 2014
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coming form a girl my self, usually if the girl decides to make the relationship end it's probaly because they feel that their relationship with you is going no where. If you want to get the girl back start slow even though you may not like the idea of that. Start by smiling and saying hello.. If you need to partner up in school, girl boy, stand by the girl. Soon, hopfully, things will start to get better and you will be able to start a conversation. WARNING! At fist things my See More▼ be a bit awkard so don't over do or react cause thats when you've blown your chane...
on June 18, 2013
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you will get over her and untill then hang with some friends and just remember everything happens for a reason you will met a new person maby not soon but eventilly
on April 15, 2013
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Track her down. Tell her you will not give up one her and you love her more than the world. Tell her sometimes people just need their space like you, but that doesnt mean you don't love her. Reveal your passion to her, fellow her how much you love her. Don't bribe her though. Lol once I did the same thing to my bf, played hard to get, then relized how stupid I was being. Just give her some time.
on April 09, 2013
and you were a jerk in the first place so she feels that yeah you are right you were a jerk ok :)