Should I be his best friend, girlfriend, or avoid him?

Should I be his best friend, girlfriend, or avoid him?

So this is really strange: I had a pretty serious bf but he was always more serious about us then me and since he was going 2 a different school I decided 2 break it off (& 4 other reasons). So now he's my best friend (I mean BEST friend) and we talk all the time but I'm starting 2 realize the full extent of his "love" (I mean he always said I love you 2 me and told me things that some spouses don't tell each other) and I'm only 13 so this was a little intense. So the other guys in my class are like "he was way more obsessed with his previous girlfriend" and to prove them wrong I asked him from 1-10 1 being a friend that's a little closer then that and 10 being future wife. HE SAID 9 we're 13! and he asks all these questions like "if we stay in touch through college will u b my gf again?" and I still have feelings for him but I'm not like sure...

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Elleyd
Sorry guys--- he's not someone I want to associate myself with him again. He's hurt me way to much. Unfortunately, I avoid him now
Elleyd
thanks...
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Elleyd
on June 17, 2014
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Kisume
on June 17, 2014
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Kisume
not unfortunatly! do whatever you feel is best for you
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on June 17, 2014
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Kisume
either he is head-over-heels in love with you or he wants something from you :\ but yah! definately keep in touch. give him a chance to prove himself. then im pretty sure everything will be ok
Kisume
so for now just be best friends
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on June 17, 2014
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Nightcat
Aw he seems really serious about you
You should keep in touch but maybe let him know you think you're a liiiitlle bit young for future wife and stuff...
Hang onto him, it's hard to find guys like that so when you're older maybe you can start up again
on April 06, 2014
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Dedeea
Best friend, time will tell what happens next.
Elleyd
Thank you so much i agree with u completely!
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on October 05, 2013
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IAMTROYSMITH
You should bang him
Nightcat
Yeah....don't do that.
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on April 06, 2014
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IAMTROYSMITH
lol bantersaurus rex
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on October 08, 2013
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Elleyd
OK what? IM 13 REALLY?! U r a strange STRANGE human being.
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on October 05, 2013
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bluesister908
Um 13 as well and I've had a couple of experiences with boys. Right now I'm best friends with a boy that I liked. He used to like me as well and we both knew it, then recently he told me he liked someone else now so um I might some advice for you. I think your friend is a bit obsessed (not trying to be mean or anything sorry if I am ) but you should still be friends with him and I guess later on, maybe when you're a sophomore you guys should go out, if you want to and he wants See More▼
bluesister908
Your welcome, I'm always available to help if you need it, don't worry
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on October 02, 2013
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Elleyd
K thanks and I kinda slowly figured out he was obsessed it's just strange and weirds me out a bit cuz there was this point I was dating someone else and my x was still calling me his disney princess and he knew i was taken ... but thanks I know what u mean. Thanks for the advice!
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on October 02, 2013
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Elleyd
Please ask questions if you're confused there's a lot more to it then just what I wrote... I really need help
lugwigBeilschmidt
Thats so sweet! it seems like he really cares about you ((I'm 13 too so i know what it's like)) I think you should go with him becuase you don't find boys like that every day.
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on October 03, 2013
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