Should I be nice to him?

Should I be nice to him?

So I've had some rough times with the guys (they would say something mean to me or my friend and i would instinctively protect me or them). Now I want to have a good last year and I want to be friends with everyone. But it's hard to to make a witty comeback and still be nice I'm trying but I feel like they are still being mean to my friends and me which I cant stand and i have to defend us! So should i even try and stress when they might not change?

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Mataways
Yes. Being mean just ruins your life.
on May 19
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rue2160
make sure when you make a quip it makes them laugh too!
on April 30, 2014
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madison1
you know how people say girls are complicated well guys can too guys sometimes tease you when they have a crush on you and sometimes you just have to kind of act like them too i have burping contests with guys in my class and most of the guys respect me and dont make fun of me but you have to earn your place guys are like wolfs in a way in a wolf pack its pretty much every man for him self you have to see which guy is like the leader of all the guys in your grade you have to See More▼
madison1
np just go with the flow
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on September 29, 2013
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Elleyd
Thank you so much I really want to hang out with the guys Im just afraid of rejection!
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on September 29, 2013
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madison1
i hope this helps btw dont be afraid if you show weakness they could tear you apart likr wolfs and dont try too hard either it really show believe me
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on September 29, 2013
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Luanaswag
You can't be liked by everyone. The fact that you try so hard too fit in with everybody, is already a reason for several people to not like you (no offense)You should just hang out with people you like and always being nice to everyone and people are teasing you, you first must think if it is to bully you or just tease you a little bit. With the first one you just make a witty comment, because screw them and you don't want to be their friend anyway, do you? You don't have to See More▼
Elleyd
Thank you so much I understand exactly what you're saying the only issue is that there is only 22 people in my grade and only 11 in my class and I dont feel as if I'm connected (truthfully they arent close friend/ bff material in my opinion) to ANY of them. and i'm giving up on the one close friend I had for other matters... So thanks I'm just trying to figure See More▼
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on September 29, 2013
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on September 28, 2013
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