I'm scared of losing my virginity with my boyfriend & afraid that he's lying about the way I look just so I can lose it to him

So me & my boyfriend been dating for a year and 7 months. He's a virgin & I am too. I'm scared of losing my virginity because I heard that it hurts really bad & That its A myth that all girls bleed. I don't wanna be embarrassed while I'm having sex with him. I also wonder if he really likes me because his friends date girls for a very long time it all depends when the girl decides to give it up & Then they leave them. He says that he "loves me" & that my body is a turn on because I have thick thighs , big butt & A tiny waist. I feel like if I give him what he Wants he'll leave me & Im really starting to grow feelings towards him & I don't want to lose my virginity to someone who just wants to hit it & quit it..
Please help! I don't wanna make a stupid mistake!

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mikus_chibi_neko
You can have sex whenever you feel that your redy, if you feel your redy then go for it. But if your not,your BF should respect your opinion. And sex doesn't hert that bad,so don't worry about it.
on September 29, 2015
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PoohRocks
Girl let me tell you your better then a smash and pass a hit and quit it you are better then that and if he is about that you dont need him at all let him go. Me and my boyfriend been a couple for a year and some n months but he dont make me do things i dont wanna do he dont even ask about sex. Yes he talkes about my big ass boody and my hips and my big ass chest and my tiny waist but nothing more then that so if he tells you "you got to do it" you dont GOT to do nothing for nobody See More▼
on May 18, 2014
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Nightcat
F?!# no!!!!!!! If your 15 you're underage!!!!!!! 16 is the legal age for sex and I know you posted this ages ago but yeah DON'T DO IT if he loves you he'll wait
Nightcat
It's technically illegal and if he's older than you he could go to prison
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on March 15, 2014
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MEGS0316
IM 12 BUT WHERE I LIVE WE GET EXPOSED A LOT SOO PLEASE LISTEN 2 MY COMMENT
on October 20, 2013
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MEGS0316
NNNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! IF HE REALLY LOVES U HE WILL RESPECT UR DECISION NO MATTER WAT!! & UR YOUNG. U SHOULD WAIT TILL UR MARRIED. & IT DOES HURT & IT BLEEDS CAUSE NOTHINGS BEEN IN THEIR BEFORE. & THINK BOUT THE CONSEQUENCES. AIDS, TEENAGE PREGNANCY. I MEAN DO U REALLY WANT TO GIVE UP UR LIFE??? UV STILL GOT YEARS OF UR LIFE 2 GO. & WAT IF U GET PREGNANT HE GETS SCARED & BREAKS UP WITH U. THE BABY WILL NEED 2 A FATHER & U THE SUPPORT. THINK BOUT UR PARENTS, FRIENDS & U WILL LOSE See More▼
on October 20, 2013
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Tigers_eye
No you're only 15!
on September 11, 2013
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Bmac99
I read down in one of the earlier answers that your fifteen. Don't you think that's a little young? I get that you've been together a long time, and that you do care about each other, but your virginity is a big deal. I'm not saying to not go for it, but think about a few things first
1. Do you really want to give it up?
If your not sure, chances are you don't want to.
2. Does he care about you enough to stay if something were to happen?
If you were to get pregnant, would See More▼
Bmac99
So, basically, if you are sure you want to, and you have a "game plan" worked out with him, and you do care about each other, then maybe you should consider it. But remember, this is a once in a life time thing. It's not like a hair cut, temporary and you can have it back over time, it's permanent. If your not comfortable with it, then don't. Don't get pressured See More▼
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on September 10, 2013
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CeceNel94
When a girl bleeds after or during losing your virginity that means the cherry has broke. It does not always happen. Your cherry can break riding a bike or horse. Some times it doesn't break at all. Most of time its not noticeable amount of blood if it does break. As for pain, it's more of an uncomfortable feeling. But first you need to think about yourself, don't think about him. Think about yourself because losing your virginity is suppose to be a beautiful thing. If you are See More▼
CeceNel94
If he can't wait than he is not mature enough to be dating. And thats good if your not ready than that's all that matters.
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on September 11, 2013
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MissDrizzy25
Thanks For your advice I understand that I have to do it for me its all up to me if I want to or not so i'll just wait & If he's not willing to wait until im ready than Im just going to be single I dont want to be Pressured into something i feel uncomfortable.
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on September 11, 2013
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MissDrizzy25
Thanks For your advice I understand that I have to do it for me its all up to me if I want to or not so i'll just wait & If he's not willing to wait until im ready than Im just going to be single I dont want to be Pressured into something i feel uncomfortable.
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on September 11, 2013
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MissDrizzy25
Thanks For your advice I understand that I have to do it for me its all up to me if I want to or not so i'll just wait & If he's not willing to wait until im ready than Im just going to be single I dont want to be Pressured into something i feel uncomfortable.
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on September 11, 2013
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MissDrizzy25
Thanks For your advice I understand that I have to do it for me its all up to me if I want to or not so i'll just wait & If he's not willing to wait until im ready than Im just going to be single I dont want to be Pressured into something i feel uncomfortable.
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on September 11, 2013
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on September 10, 2013
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Tigers_eye
i'm only 12, so maybe not the best person for advice but stay a virgin till he shows he's commited properly and that he is the right one, you don't want to end up withan unwanted child because the pill didn't work, right? Or you're on your own. and not too young, how old are you?
serenity8394
dont do it
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on December 16, 2013
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Tigers_eye
no definitely not if you're 15!
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on September 11, 2013
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Memes
WTF? 15 and wanteing to have sex? the 'proper' age is 18 years old and your still a kid at 15 years old!
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staygold
the """""proper""""" age is 16, and she can do what SHE wants.
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MissDrizzy25
Thanks For the advice! & Im 15.
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