My crush is dating one of my best friends. Must i wait for him or go for him?

My crush is dating one of my best friends. Must i wait for him or go for him?

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SillyPantsJackson
If you want my opinion, I would say you keep your friend. Boyfriends don't last forever, and when it ends, you wont have your best friend to go to.
rigby
So true boys are no diffrent from busses. When oe comes along hop on the one
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on June 25, 2015
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on February 13, 2014
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CatValentinereal
Okay you could either lose a best friend or lose your man.....don't go after him until they break up friends before men
on March 10, 2014
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tigergirl33
my best friend Zoe was dating the guy that I really had a crush on and I feel like cupid hit me with one of his arrows. they broke up a little while ago and I really want him to luv me. could you help me on this one?
on March 04, 2014
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Bmac99
Wouldn't your best friend be really mad if you went for him?
Bmac99
Which one are you willing to lose? If you go for the guy and the friend hates you-then you lose your friend. If you chose your friend, then you lose the guy. Maybe neither will mind. But you have to think about it.
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on September 02, 2013
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CeCene
i want my friend but i want him!
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on September 02, 2013
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Bmac99
Who would you rather have as backup? Your "bf" or your best friend. Honestly, it should be sisters before misters.
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on August 26, 2013
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CeCene
thats why im asking. I cant decide
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on August 26, 2013
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Bmac99
Well then you have to ask yourself: what's more important, my infatuation with some guy, or my friendship? Something's gotta give.
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on August 25, 2013
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CeCene
exactly
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on August 25, 2013
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on August 25, 2013
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Estonia
Wait! If you try to get the guy, ur friend will see it as a betrayl of trust
Estonia
I'm just a generous person, but here's some problem solvers:
1) confess to ur friend u like the boy, ask her what you should do.
2) wait it out, relationships don't last 4ever.
3) find a new crush.
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on August 25, 2013
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CeCene
exactly my problem
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on August 25, 2013
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on August 25, 2013
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planetfroot
I feel ya bro.... Shane! But ask him out I'm TOOO shy to ask mine
CeCene
my friend might get mad
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on August 25, 2013
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on August 25, 2013
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The_Rose_Gamer
Go for it...I know how you feel sorta...MY FRIEND KNOWS HOW IT FEELS!
on December 08, 2015
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Dauntless_Demigod
don't go for him he seems perfectly happy with ur BF don't ruin it 4 her maybe it's just not meant to be u'll find ur true love eventually
on October 12, 2015
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mikus_chibi_neko
Someone else, even if you wait for him, your BFF will be MAD if you get together with her ex
on September 15, 2015
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staygold
My best friend actually TOLD one of my crushes, Anthony, that I liked him. And guess what? He liked me back! So he's my "boyfriend" now... But I might break up with him soon cuz it's kinda awkward and I heard there's a Valentine's Day Dance in February... IwanttoaskmybiggercrushDavian...
on November 28, 2014
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staygold
Oh, that sucks. Does your best friend know? Just tell your BFF that you like the kid they're dating, but don't tell them to break up. Just say, Hey, would you be jealous if I said I like the person you're dating? Wait for the response.
on November 28, 2014
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