I think my mum is cheating on my dad!!! PLEASE HELP ME

This may be long but PLEASE HELP ME!!!! ( im a 13 year old girl, Not dirty minded and ive never sweared in my life )
= This all started about 1 year ago...
My parents started having arguments for tiny things and when my dad went on holiday and he was about to come back, on that day my mum packed her things and went somewhere! I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE!! OMG 0_0
= A couple of things happened and then my mum came back (finally)
= But my mum slept in MY ROOM not with my dad... im like just leave it.....
So after about a few months my dad started complaining its been so long just come on!!! ( im just like watching and listening and trying to get my mum to sleep with my dad )
= Still weeks went on by and she still didnt come to sleep with my dad ( just in the same room )
= I've heard my mum talking to my cousin ALOT for some reason ( she used to NEVER EVER talk to him only for tiny reasons ) Weird huh?
= I was curious why..? but i didnt want to jump to conclusions....
= I wanted to play on my cousins Xbox so i looked in his drawer thing ( he sleeps in the living room ) and i found CONDOMS in a red packet o_O I thought he was having *IT* with other girls not my mum so i started laughing loool ^.^
= Then after a few weeks I found a CONDOM IN MY ROOM ( where my mum sleeps ) OMG??? THATS IT... i thought
= I freaked out when i saw that... it was the same colour packet ( red )
= Im like... calm... STAY CALM........... I didnt want to ask why it was there
= Anyways the talking continued and my mum always stayed downstairs for a LOOONG time until late at night.... i would star upstairs near the stairs trying to listen to their convocations but it got borning
= Today on the 8th of june 2013 after my dad went to work for his night shift ( I forgot to say my mum leaves for work early and comes home late, but she works far away) I heard my mum saying/sort of screaming "Ahhh Ahhh EEE"
and my cousin was like( in my language) 'Shut up (covering her mouth) and i heard the sofa bed creaking.... WHAT THE FLIP IS GOING ON IN MY FLIPPING MIND I THINK YOU GUYS CAN TELL..... LIKE FLIP FLIP FLIP..... SEX WAS GOING ON IN MY MIND
I KNOW YOU GUYS WERE THINKING " Why the hell didnt you RUN DOWNSTAIRS and look what they were doing? "
I couldnt.... my body froze like a statue.... I didnt know what to do... if i went my mum and cousin would kill me ( maybe with a kinfe I DONT KNOW ) if they saw me they maybe would of told me to keep quite? HOW COULD I...!!
UGH!!! what do i do with my life??? help me please im crying my heart out...
Dont give me crap answers... please i beg you guys!
P.S When my mum goes downstairs im also going to sit there too =] i dont want them having IT -_- Flipping hell Thanks for reading Answer below please!

EDIT:
So today on the 13th june 2013 AGAIN at night around 11:20pm both me and my mum went downstairs and i went back up because the living room door was locked so im like... HMM okay ill watch from upstairs so i heard my mum and cousin talking right after i went up.... WHY CANT U TALK IN FRONT OF ME
/// The same flipping thing happened after a little convo my mum screamed a little 'ahhhh' and shes like in my language 'no please' an my cousin was like in english 'please..' Like what the hell would go on in your mind.... please help me i didnt even go downstairs my heart was racing, my chest felt tight.... my body froze again..... im crying while typing this at 11:40pm
Should i tell my BFF I trust her so much and she tells me ALL her secrets we never keep anything from each other.... and we live right next to each other so..... i really want to tell someone but not anyone in school..... or my dad

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Bmac99
The best thing you can do is just sit down ad talk to her. Get it all out in the open, and tell her to e completely honest. Hope this helps
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on June 11, 2013
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HelpMePlease
= ] Thanks That really helped my confidence
Im always on the lookout or im always listening just incase ^.^
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on June 09, 2013
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Bmac99
That's what I would do. Just surprise them the next time you hear anything. Then, there is no denying what's been going on . You've seen it with your own eyes, and they're in trouble.
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on June 09, 2013
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HelpMePlease
Ill try.... But if i do hear what i heard before ( the last bit of my thing about the shut up and UGHHH thing ) im gonna RUN DOWNSTAIRS AND BE LIKE WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS DOING.............................. If it is im gonna run up stairs lock my room and cry and post it if its true on this
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Wolfaswag
Wait wait WAAAAAAIIIITTTTTTTT SISTA! Ask ur mom why her and dad fight too much and sleeps in your room remember u can only tell God to help u o.o oh da condoms when ur mom walks in ur room just go like "hmm I wonder where's mah crap... O.o mom df is this doin in my room O.o"
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TankBerserk
TELL YOUR DAD!If your mom is cheating on him that means that they should not be together. I am SO Ssorry this is happening to you.
on May 03, 2014
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TankBerserk
TELL YOUR DAD!If your mom is cheating on him that means that they should not be together. I am SO Ssorry this is happening to you.
on May 03, 2014
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Therightofthedead
Not all problems can be resolved with answers but can be by problems.
on April 04, 2014
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IAMTROYSMITH
my cows are on a different kind of weed
i am wear bra
can you help me i jigged my fibbler when this happened to me
but i t was my dad and my brother
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Layla_The_Gayla
I think your parent might be on the break of divorce. I'm so sorry this is happening! Your mom might be on drugs and so might your cousin. I wish I had good advice to give I really do but all I can say is to talk to your mom. This might be a misunderstanding. I wish I could help and good luck.
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RosenEliza
Okay that kind of nasty and.... Ask your mom about what you heard she might tell you what happen or try to deny it if she deny's it you know she did something if she tells you then you also know tell your friend shes your bff.
on June 16, 2013
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Thesophster101
Be honest. Tell your mom what you wrote. Hope it gets better! If you wanna talk my Instagram account is @thesophster101
HelpMePlease
Ill try... maybe 1 day ill catch them doing something -_-
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madison1
ask your mom whats going on no kid i speak as one myself should have to hear that disgusting stuff but ya like bmac said sit down and talk with her about it and one question how old is your cousin and is he from your dad's side?
HelpMePlease
LOOOL that'd be a brother-sister thing o_O
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madison1
ohhhh at least he isnt from your moms side right
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HelpMePlease
my cousin is like 20+ ( dont know his age but he is over 20 ) and he is from my dad's side
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Bmac99
The best thing you can do is just sit down and get it all out in the open. Ask her what's going on, and to be completely honest.
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Mattybaby
This might be weird but you could "gather evidence" like pictures maybe. I dunno. And then sit your mom down and try to talk about it. Not ask her right then and there but gradually bring it up? And then if she denies it you have " the evidence". I don't know and I'm sorry it was kind of a crappy answer. Your 13? I'm only 11 so again sorry
Mattybaby
You'll find the right time...
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on June 15, 2013
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HelpMePlease
ughh we didnt end up going shopping and i didnt get to ask her
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on June 14, 2013
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Mattybaby
That might be something to say to her. I've had the same issue with my stepmom once, she left and came home at like 1:30 am and I was pretty worried but she came home and had a good excuse. Maybe your mom isn't up to something. But based on what you heard/saw you need to talk to her about it(: good luck
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on June 09, 2013
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HelpMePlease
Ill try talking it out with her... NOT TOMORROW.... We might go shopping tomorrow so... ill ask her then... Ill be like 'Mum, I heard you saying ______ and my cousin saying *shut up* to you and creaking nosies.... what the hell we're you doing....? Im 13 Dont you think ill get wrong ideas about that?'
Also cuz we're in public she'll have to tell me HA HA HA See More▼
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on June 09, 2013
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Mattybaby
Sorry I couldn't be more help, but you shouldn't be scared to talk to her. She's your mom and if you need to talk to anyone you should be able to talk to her
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HelpMePlease
Thanks for the help but i dont think i can 'gather evidence' like photos as they are in the living room most of the time and also i always want to tslk to her but im scared ; - ;
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