You're rare. You want your kids make choose their life before you do. You don't believe in hitting kids, but find creative & affective ways of instilling right&wrong. You take the time to get to know your kid apart from the family&listen to what they have to say. Understand as a parent you have more experience but they have some you don't. You accept when you're wrong & keep your temper under control. But don't worry, your still a fighter, and they give their lives so their children learn the best in life.