is it wrong for a 14 year old to date a sixteen year old?
okay so i was at the mall with my friends and she invited some guys to come along one of them is named nate and i found out he likes me but im only fourteen and he's sixteen but he wants to date me but i don't know if i should is it wrong, i think i'm NOT going to date him because he is sixteen
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Maybe you should wait what your parents say...some parents would say yes or no.But let them meet him first and let them put down some ground rules.You're a girl and he is a boy....Fathers tend to get a tad rashful about their daughters dating a stranger they first meet.
on July 20, 2017
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Ummh, that depends on what stand-point you saw him.
Like, from what I gather from your story is that you didn't know him at all at first and that he likes you with that one meeting (I don't know if it was your first meeting or not, cause if it is I'll say stuff like "that kind if 'fate' ain't real" and all, but dating is mainly about trying new stuff so it would still be a 50-50 chance).
If your still not sure, no problem. Then you gotta find out how serious he would be about See More▼ your relationship.
I'm not only talking about how he would think and do in a dating relationship, but also how his type of character would react if you refuse and 'continue living' from that point (some dudes say stuff like "oke, cool, nevermind then" and carries on. And some on the other hand become The negativety in the relationship with your other friends so you gotta get rid of him. Calculations are that simple)
I wouldn't care too much about age. If you feel comfortable with dating, cool. If not just friend-zone him, I've seen enough anime characters doing that and it still works XD
that's just my opinion though ^-^
Like, from what I gather from your story is that you didn't know him at all at first and that he likes you with that one meeting (I don't know if it was your first meeting or not, cause if it is I'll say stuff like "that kind if 'fate' ain't real" and all, but dating is mainly about trying new stuff so it would still be a 50-50 chance).
If your still not sure, no problem. Then you gotta find out how serious he would be about See More▼ your relationship.
I'm not only talking about how he would think and do in a dating relationship, but also how his type of character would react if you refuse and 'continue living' from that point (some dudes say stuff like "oke, cool, nevermind then" and carries on. And some on the other hand become The negativety in the relationship with your other friends so you gotta get rid of him. Calculations are that simple)
I wouldn't care too much about age. If you feel comfortable with dating, cool. If not just friend-zone him, I've seen enough anime characters doing that and it still works XD
that's just my opinion though ^-^
on December 05, 2015
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That's really sad. But age doesn't matter unless you're older than him. That's just disgusting! But your in good hands. Have fun!
on March 28, 2016