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My friends always leave me out. They are absolutely fine with me at school it's just when we play out. I always play out with my friends after school and sometimes in the school holidays. But the only trouble is in the holidays they don't even knock for me. Sometimes when I go to the shop with my mum, I see them all hanging out with me!! :( They told me the reason was because my house is too far but actually it's not that far it's literally down the road!! HELP!!!
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First, you should calm down a little bit, and chat with someone you really like and trust. In full detail *or how much you would like to reveal*, explain the causes and effects of why they might be shutting you down. A good choice would be a counselor. Second, whenever you see one or all of them, go over, and try to talk to them about it. If you can't muster up the courage to do this step, try with a simple "Can you guys please tell me what's going on?". If that ends up being See More▼ a shake of the head, and a walk away moment, try to talk one last time. "A few weeks ago, we were best friends, and now...your ignoring me!!" *adding humor is sometimes the way to go *like Freddie Kruger against Steven Universe!!*. I'm just trying to say, the easiest way to go is to TALK. If it turns out, you can't get anything out of them, it's time to move on to some NEW friends. Think. You could try finding friends in your own personal hobby group, or a friend in a different subject altogether. I just want you to think first, and then maybe the action will become clearer with time, and focus. Elleyd's right, they don't seem like real friends right now, but maybe they'll go soft, and confide in why their blocking you out. And the house thing, when you explain that, PLEASE add some type of humorous statement, unless your friends have NO sense of humor. It also depends on how old you are. But, I'll be your friend, and you can always come on Qfeast and talk to me :D
Unicorns_o0o
no problem
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on April 13, 2014
Geekgirlglasses
thanks for the advice! :D
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on April 13, 2014
xxMiranda_xx
She's said it all :)
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on April 12, 2014
on April 12, 2014
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Don't seem like great friends to me. Keep them but just find some other ones that u can b closer with.
on April 12, 2014