if my parents are not married can i leave with my dad without getting the police involved ?

Im trying to leave with my dad but my mom keeps saying that she will call the police and press charges on him. I need help. I don't know what to do. If I keep living with my mom I feel like going to kill myself. I am 16 years old i turn 17 in September. My mom is trying to send me to a mental hospital
because she says that she can't deal with me anymore. She doesn't send me with my dad because she said she doesn't want to pay child support. She keeps insisting telling me to kill myself
because she doesn't want me in her life. I don't know what to do . I want to be adopted or something but I can't keep living here. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE reply as soon as you can . ThankYou.

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HermioneGranger24
Don't worry.If your mom starts to tell you stuff that hurts your feelings,Stand up for yourself.Show her your not afraid to take a stand.And you shouldn't be if she's abusing you.I can assure you that if you believe in yourself,every will turn out fine.I believe in you.I hope you read this comment.
on April 10, 2012
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rocker
I think that you and your father should talk to a lawyer about that.
on April 09, 2012
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xXHannahRaexXP
Okay first of all im extreamly sorry bout ur life. and i hope u can work through it cuz ur mom is a horrible person just to let u know. and u should call the police and tell what she did or tell your dad cuz this isnt right and dont end ur life because of her.i dont know if you believe in god but i do and god put you on this earth for you to live and do something with your life Hope this helps and i believe in you.
on May 12, 2012
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DJearworm
You should call the police.THIS IS CHILD ABUSE AND YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED THIS WAY no one does.
on April 11, 2012
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ripley
Yeah, what your mother said, is VERY illegal. How about YOU call the police and tell them wat happened. Its also illegal to threat. Show her all these comments.
on April 10, 2012
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larrystylinson4eva
if u fel she dont want u nomor den tel her dat if u feel she dont lov u tel her dat. den after u tel her evryding den hug her n say u lov her
on April 10, 2012
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larrystylinson4eva
Beg ur mom try cryin in front of her and hug her and mak her fel bad and if she is insistin u 2 kil urself wel just dont but i am being honest so her is wat i would do i would make ur mother feel horibl about wat she is doin n u shod get her 2 c dat she neds u in her lif and den beg and beg and beg to go live wid ur dad and she will be as heart broken as u are n wen the time is rit tel her exactly how u fel.
on April 10, 2012
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Little.Blue
Thats awful, your mum is a horrible person, i cant imagine a mother encouraging their own child to commit suicide! I think that you should call child-line annonymously and ask 4 help
on July 29, 2012
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stonecold
well if u have a phone call the police and tell him/her what is going on and that u want 2 be with yr dad or u can also call yr dad and tell him wat is going on maybe yr dad could help u
on June 12, 2012
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mikus_chibi_neko
My friend, left and lived with her dad when she was 10, that's when you can choose
on September 16, 2015
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RosenEliza
Call the police on your mother FYI its a free country she cant tell you what to do (even if she is your mom) she is agreeing to suicide which she can go to jail for. Don't be scared of the police getting involved they kind of need to anyway! If you really don't want to get the police involved you can pack your bags and hide them when your mom falls asleep leave to your father he can get the situation smooth out.
on June 07, 2013
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puglover3000
Well, first, DO NOT do what she said to do. THen go to the police or court or something like that.
on May 02, 2013
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madison1
you can decide who you want to go with take it to the court they will let you chose who you want to go with you sound like a great person and nobody deserves a mom who wants you to get out of her life
on March 29, 2013
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earth707
O yaw call the police! U dont deserve this treatment. Ur a wonderful person and have a horrrible mum. Be strong. Dont listen to her. U r perfect the way u r. Dont kill urself. Its not right. Ull always have my full suport. Good luck
on August 10, 2012
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earth707
Look. Dont commit suicide. Ur mom just sounds kinda jerky (did not mean to offened..) but u shuld do what u feel is right. No one can control what u du. JUST NO SUCIDE! At that moment life might seem horrible but remeber, u still have ur whole future. stay strong and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
on August 10, 2012
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potterpox
SUCIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER and your mum is doing child abuse call the police and put the charges on your mum and iif that does not work move to a different state with no trace were your mum can find you or go to a orphange!
on August 07, 2012
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Thule
Call child-line, the police and/or your dad. Your mum is using child abuse I and deeply feel for you.
on August 06, 2012
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