True Friend or Fake Friend?

True Friend or Fake Friend?

So, my friend that I have known for 4 years has been trying to change me. She called me rude and mean which added onto my many reasons for depression. She said she cares that I am sad and hurting but is saying how I am mean to people and that people leave me because I treat them wrong. I am starting to believe her because I am very sensitive and I believe what people tell me is wrong with me. I don't know if she is really my friend or is trying to mold me into a perfect friend for her and into something she wants me to be?! I need advice guys I'm really hurting right now.

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Kennedy101
She is not a true friend cause come and take my quiz do you and your friend have a goodRelationship
on July 01, 2014
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Bmac99
If she's trying to change you, she definitely not your friend. She is being selfish, wanting something more. But what she doesn't realize, is she'll never find another you. You are one of a kind. You are perfect I'm every way, because that's how you were made. Don't change for anything or anyone, if they don't like you the way you are, the wont like you change either. Stay strong.
Bmac99
You're welcome
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on June 05, 2013
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mollyisnotonfire
Thanks this helped a lot .
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on June 05, 2013
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on June 04, 2013
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Sophieisakitty
She's not your real friend.. A real friend (liek me?? ;3) wouldn't change you.. Real friends take you for who you are... They don't mold you into a person.. You're your own person don't let anyone change youuuu
mollyisnotonfire
hahah ily
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on June 04, 2013
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snoochie23
she is not a true friend because she is trying to mold you into HER perfect friend. she is not trying to mold you into yourself
on April 15, 2015
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monsterhighlover1221
She isn't your true friend, she is your fake friend.
A true, true friend helps a friend in need. A friend will be there to help you see, a true, true friend help a friend in need to see the light that shines from a true, true friend. If she is trying to change you and saying that YOU are being rude and mean when you aren't, then she isn't a true, true friend.
Hope this helps you
on June 04, 2014
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Jarberra
I think she isn't. But if she wants to turn your bad side in good, she is in the wrong way. True friends are always stpportive . She should accept you for who you are . If she is your good friend,she always try to make you feel good not try to heart you. So don't listen to her,you are nice with who you are.
on January 11, 2014
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swageyamatobiyolo
If she was your true friend she would accept you for who you are.

Hope this helped, even a little.
on October 31, 2013
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thatsssanicequizzzyouhavethere
She isn't! A friend wouldn't say such things. Don't listen to her! She cannot mould you into someone else, you are NOT her piece of Play-Doh!
on August 23, 2013
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vintagebird
That is NOT what a true friend would do to you. Don't listen to her! You are your own reason, to her play toy!
on July 09, 2013
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ChokolatLover
If she's trying to change you than she's selfish. It's not her decision if you should change or not. It's yours. And don't listen to her because you are beautiful and special. And u should never forget that.
on July 02, 2013
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GONETOOLATE
It doesn't sound like she's trying to change you, it sounds like she's trying to help you see how others see you.
vintagebird
That's so horrible!!
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on July 09, 2013
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mollyisnotonfire
maybe, but she always does this. One day it's a different thing wrong with me, then another, and another. It never ends!
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