What's Your Boundary Style? Find out how you set boundaries in relationships. Take this quiz to find out! delya90 published on February 171 response 0 « Previous Next » Questions in vertical order 1/12 How do you react when someone crosses your boundaries? I ignore it and hope it doesn't happen again I confront them immediately I try to find a compromise 2/12 How do you communicate your boundaries to others? I avoid the topic altogether I drop hints and hope they get the message I clearly state my expectations 3/12 What do you do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries? I let it go and pretend like it didn't happen I distance myself from that person I reinforce my boundaries and set consequences 4/12 How do you handle boundary-setting in a new relationship? I establish my boundaries early on I avoid setting boundaries to avoid conflict I go with the flow and see how it goes 5/12 What's your approach to compromising on boundaries? I always give in to avoid conflict I avoid compromising and stick to my own rules I am willing to compromise as long as my core values are respected 6/12 How do you feel about enforcing consequences for boundary violations? I believe consequences are necessary to reinforce boundaries I struggle with enforcing consequences, I fear losing the relationship I don't believe in consequences, I prefer to forgive and forget 7/12 When someone apologizes for crossing a boundary, how do you respond? I accept the apology and discuss how to prevent it from happening again I feel uncomfortable and change the subject I downplay it and reassure them it's okay 8/12 What do you do when someone asks you to do something that goes against your boundaries? I politely decline and explain my boundaries I ghost them to avoid the situation altogether I reluctantly agree to avoid conflict 9/12 How do you feel about setting boundaries with family members? I avoid setting boundaries with family, fearing the repercussions I believe boundaries are important even with family, and I enforce them I find it hard to set boundaries with family and often give in 10/12 What's your reaction when someone tests your boundaries intentionally? I try to brush it off and not make a big deal out of it I avoid the person to prevent further boundary violations I stand my ground and make it clear that I won't tolerate it 11/12 How do you feel about discussing boundaries openly with your partner? I find it uncomfortable and tend to avoid the topic I fear conflict and avoid discussing boundaries with my partner I believe communication is key and I'm comfortable discussing boundaries openly 12/12 What's your reaction when someone disrespects your boundaries repeatedly? I make excuses for their behavior and continue to tolerate it I withdraw emotionally and physically to protect myself I reevaluate the relationship and consider setting stricter boundaries or ending it
