Are you genuine to heart or are you just a good person?

Are you genuine to heart or are you just a good person?

I believe that there are two kinds of people in this world. There are those who are genuine to heart, and then there are those who are good. The people who are good will only be good to you for so long before they show another side to them that ultimately hurts you; they show their true colors in one way or another. The people who are genuine to heart are those who would -never- intentionally hurt you. They are -always- sincere, they would -never- leave you, and they would -always- love to be with you just to see you smile. **For the most accurate results, honesty is a must. If you do not answer these questions with 100% honesty, you'll only be lying to yourself.**

published on November 20, 2012368 responses 15 5.0★ / 5

Pretend that you are 16 years old, in high school again or for the first time. A group of kids start to make fun of you and laugh at you about it. How do you respond?

You walk right up to them, stand your ground and not care how much bigger they may be to you and the risk of them physically hurting you, and you tell them what's right and what they shouldn't be doing to you. "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt," sadly isn't true.
You ignore them and keep going about your business. It's best to avoid conflict. Responding to negativity with negativity will only result in negativity.

Would you rather? (Assuming you are young.)

Talk to an old person
Talk to one of your friends

You notice someone sitting alone. You've never seen them before; they're a total stranger to you. You notice that they look sad... What do you feel and then what do you do?

You feel bad for them, but you mind your own business because you have to get to work on time and who knows? They may be sad over something very bad that they did... yikes.
You walk up to the stranger and ask them what's wrong, feeling sad for them. You then try your hardest to help them in whatever way you can, as long as it's legal, safe, and nice.
You walk up to the stranger and ask them what's wrong, feeling sad for them. Your grandmother is across the street nearby and she asks you to help you at the same time you consider helping the sad stranger. You decide your grandma is a higher priority than the stranger.
You feel bad for them and you approach them, asking them what you can do to help.
You feel bad for them and you approach them, asking them what you can do to help. You then provide them a future date that you can meet them at, in a public place, so you can get to know them a little more.

You're walking along and minding your own business when a man who appears to be in his early 50s stops you to ask you a question. He was wanting to know if you knew where the nearest bus stop is. Would you...?

Stop what you are doing, smile at the man, listen to what he says, think hard about the area you are in to try to come up with the best result as to of where the nearest bus stop is, and if you know, gladly answer the man's question. If you don't know, you would apologize to the man, feel bad for being unable to answer his question, and show him to the nearest information center or ask someone else for him.
What you were doing turned out to be important, so when the man stopped you, you stopped what you were doing and listened to what he said, but you didn't have time to think about a good answer, so you simply answered him what first came to your mind so you said,"Uh, I think there's a bus stop down that way, but I gotta go."
Stop what you are doing, smile at the man, listen to his question, and if you know, point him in the direction of the bus stop, and then continue about your business. Or, you would tell him that you don't know, say you're sorry, and then continue about your business.

This world?

Is something that we live and thrive in. It's the only planet in our galaxy to harbor life as we know it. It's very unique. It's better to live on than a lot of other planets.
Is simply beautiful. You'd love to just sit back and admire sunsets and sunrises for a long time.

You would rather do something super exciting and personal for you for the first time...

Alone
With a friend

You have a lot of casual friends at school. This one friend of yours loves to mock people but out of good humor. He keeps making teasing jokes about you and grinning or laughing about it after. Do you?

Always laugh with him about it.
Start to get irritated after awhile. It's not very nice of him to continually make those kind of jokes about you to you.
You go with the flow. Whatever makes him happy.

It's December 25th! You...?

Buy gifts for your family.
Buy gifts for a couple family members.
Buy a gift just for one family member only because you couldn't afford more gifts.
Don't buy any gifts for your family because you are the gift.

You would rather...

Go to the cheapest ice cream shop in town to buy your friend ice cream. Why not? Who cares if you're cheap? It's the thought that counts, right?
Go to the best ice cream shop in town. If you're going to get your friend ice cream, why would you get poor quality ice cream? You would want someone who you care about to only have the best of anything you offer them!

You're at work. Your job is customer service. Are you...?

Happy, listening, and valuing the customer as top priority always?
Happy, listening, and valuing the customer as top priorty for years always? Well, unless something bad happens in your personal life like your significant other just broke up with you or one of your family members passed away...

You're hanging out with your friends. What would you most likely want to do with them?

Do whatever they want to do.
Do whatever you want to do.
Do what you and your friend wants to do.

You go to a fast food restaraunt with a friend. You are most likely to...?

Have your friend pay for the food because they offered you it
You pay for the food, regardless of your friend offering
Your friend pays for the meal because they offered it. You will repay them later

For this scenario, pretend that you have a younger sibling. Your sibling is very talkative, always steals your stuff, and really seems to be trying to hurt you. Your feelings for them?

Someone just cocked the trigger of a gun aimed at your sibling. You jump in front of them and ultimately end up getting shot and killed, saving their life.
They're standing in the middle of the road, drawing on the ground with chalk. A car is coming. You scream at them to run to the sidewalk, paralyzed in fear for them

You just graduate from high school and you have nothing better to do than sit on your computer all day and night until you can find a job. You have a strong emotional attachment to the internet as you listen to a lot of emotionally meaningful music online, the one video game you play is very fun, and you've been talking to your internet friends for awhile. Months pass and you soon realize you've forgotten to call up your other real life friends! You feel...?

Horrible and you cannot believe yourself. How could you forget to call up this guy who's really awesome and caring and you miss him! You never meant to ignore your other friends for so long. You just got carried away with the internet, that's all.
Bad! You really didn't mean to ignore them for so long. You simply got too involved in your personal life, is all. You quickly call up a friend and schedule a date to hang out with them & catch up on things when you feel in the mood to pull yourself away from the touching things there is to read, see, and hear online.

You find out that one of your internet friends whom you've been communicating with for 2 years is crying. How do you feel and then what do you do?

You would feel bad for them and ask them "what's wrong?" You would hear/read what they are explaining what's wrong, pause to think for a moment, and then elaborate on long and detailed wisdom and comfort to try to best help them and enlighten them.
You'd feel bad for them and you would want to hug them!
You just realized, at the time of finding out your internet friend had cried, that your parents or another friend of yours just offered you to meet him outside at that moment so you can vacation with him to Hawaii, but he needs you to get in his car now because he has to go to the airport now. You tell your friend,"I hope you feel better soon," and you go off to your other friend to enjoy a lovely vacation.
You just realized, at the time of finding out your internet friend had cried, that your parents or another friend of yours just offered you to meet him outside at that moment so you can vacation with him to Hawaii, but he needs you to get in his car now because he has to go to the airport now. You tell your friend,"Hey, I got an important trip to go to, Hawaii. I know he has to go now, but let me go talk to my friend real quick to see if you can come with us." You'd then try your hardest to make it happen.