Who's fault is it? My BEST friend or I?

One day, I was walking with my 2 friends. My BEST friend says: "Hey, why are you not playing with me?" and I reply with: "I'm sorry, next recess?" and I walk away. He then replies with: "Okay!" and we depart... The next recess, I couldn't play with my BEST friend, because I couldn't find him. The next time we talked/met he said: "Why didn't you play with me?" and I say: "I couldn't find you!" he then says: "Why do you hate me!" because I was playing with some of my newer friends. A couple of days after, I decided to joke with him. I made fun of him! He said: "Why do you hate me?" once more. He then tells everyone to unfollow me on this app we call: "Instagram!" He then spreads a bunch of gossip. And sticks his tongue out in the halls. I then call him an idiot, and he cries. Then the latter tried to make me jeaulous by stealing one of my friends. My friend then texts me and says: "I'm not on your side", and: "I hate you!" and I get sad. He called his: "Best Friend" gay, and I told him why did you call my exe Best Friend gay? He than says: "OMG, you called your best friend gay, I'm telling him!" and lies to my exe best friend! My friend then starts posting pictures on Instagram, referencing me as a bad friend. He then says: "He's jealous I have a best friend forever, and he doesn't!" I then say I'm not mean I'm sorry!", and then say: "I didn't call you gay!" and type him a million more texts! He then ignores me and says f me, as in I! Who's side are you on, who's side are you against? Tell me in the comments!

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RpgGamer
Look I think you both seemed childish
Friends should talk to each other,
He shouldn't have taken it so personally when you were busy
You should have made more time for him, and NOT make fun of him.
which lead him to do some of those stuff.

The other person who told him that you called him gay didn't help at all.

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Letsago
And to be honest, I am one of the more loved, but misunderstood kids at my school.
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Letsago
He usually screams: "Excuse me?"
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Letsago
Yeah I know! Laugh it all out loud. But he is always pretending to not listen to me. He is a male, but is a bit on the sassy side. I'm going to call him a tom girl.
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Letsago
He won't let get alone to talk with him. His friends are like his bodyguards, plus he never lets me talk. That much now that he is all mad at me.
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RpgGamer
its all about timing, he won't be with his friends 24/7
and when you do get him alone say something you know for sure will get his attention.
Other than that
I don't know, move on I guess.
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Letsago
I should have known he is a bit more sensitive than my other friends.
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Letsago
Yes, good opinion. I love how you are very honest. You are probably the smartest person that commented here. You are very wise sir. Or madame. I did try to apologize but he hated on me. He did the same. We both rejected each other. At least my story's more honest than his. He takes out all the parts where he's the bad guy, and blames me. Heh. I do think I did See More▼
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RpgGamer
Sorry if I have no solutions,
But I think your problem is with him directly
You should get him alone and honestly tell him what you want to directly.
I'll be honest, I don't have many friends
but if I did I would want them to talk to me about stuff.
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Intense_Fire
Its his fault!
Letsago
Thank you. I have some blame to.
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Intense_Fire
you're welcome but he took it over board and over exaggerated it was never your fault and he took it too far
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The_death_wyvren
Do you go to oakbrook?
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Letsago
Okay. THX.
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Letsago
No. I don't live in America. I live Canada.
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The_death_wyvren
Anyway I have to go if u need any more help just ask me ok?
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The_death_wyvren
Kool...
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Letsago
I live in Canada, sorry.
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The_death_wyvren
It's his fault bruh I know how you feel that bitch is stupid man he can't take a damn joke
Letsago
It was my fault anyway. I should've never became friends with him. We just don't match. He is a Tom girl and I am more of a funny humorous guy. He is also funny, but half the memes he posts online, aren't even his!
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Letsago
He said my Youtube channel was stupid, even when he was in one of my videos. I then said he is "officially obsessed with Instagram!" he got so hissed! If he were telling the story, he would never say he did the bad stuff, but I'm telling the story, and I am even blaming myself.
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The_death_wyvren
Right right I belive you
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Letsago
I can't say thank you enough, jeez thanks dude. Your tips are great!
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Letsago
Your awesome!
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Letsago
Thanks! Everyone in my school is on his side, blaming me for joking around and calling him an idiot! He doesn't even let me talk! And now he's posting pics of his plush I gave to him on Instagram, and I'm asking for it back. I'm giving him the shoutouts of his life on Instagram, while he's saying: "Your making the fight worse!" I said: "We're you using a following See More▼
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The_death_wyvren
To be honest I have gotten I a bunch of situation of people calling me fat and gay and shit butt doesn't bother me anyone j just found new friends
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The_death_wyvren
Plus if he does fight back then what you do is use two fingers pointer and middle and jam them into his corner between his neck and his shoulders
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The_death_wyvren
@Letsago to be honest just ingnore him just stay quiet and wait for the storm to blow over and if he says anything bad to you just point out a weakness about him that you know about him make him feel stupid for saying what he says that's what I do atleast
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Letsago
Not to mention, he called my 8 year old brother stupid.
Mataways
Ok now it's really 70% his fault. Calling 8 year olds stupid? Dude he is a big bully. Pretty soon it's all his fault.
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Dauntless_Demigod
Wow he's mean
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Mataways
Your "barely considered bff's" is actually way more childish then you.

Wow he better learn some manners
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Mataways
Ok look. You friend started the argue and did much more dark things. 40% your fault and 60% his fault.
Mataways
NO WAIT. ITS 100% HIS FAULT.
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Dauntless_Demigod
Gods that's awful, that's not just mean it's BULLYING AND CYBER BULLYING, it's was at first a tiny mistake u made, I don't blame u. But it just got worst and that was ur friends fault. He's a HUGE b*cth. Don't worry I'm on ur side.
Mataways
Humanity these days
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