Parent issues! Need help!

Parent issues! Need help!

Im planning to tell my parents that im a Tomboy but, they might think, im Lesbian. And my parents r sensitive about me. I dont know what to tell them. Cause I always think im controlled by puppet strings. My parents are forcing me to be prim and proper while im a Messy And Lazy. They forced me to cut my long bangs (which I look like a Tomboy) and besides my Derpy shirt A DRESS to the movies. HELP WHAT SHOULD I TELL THEM
Also. If im lesbian its technically breaking my religion.

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staygold
okay, look.
telling them you're a tomboy isn't like you're coming out as trans or gay. if you're a tomboy, it doesn't mean you're a lesbian. and it's not like you're a total boy. tomboys can still like girly things. and in my opinion, you don't really need to "come out" as a tomboy. people usually just do that if they're like, part of the LGBTQQIAPPM2+ community. besides, you can just assure them you're not a lesbian.
they know you like boys, right?
FallingRozePetals
Yea. But they dont know im fictionsex - YOU KNOW WHAT
Thanks for the advice
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staygold
Cx no problem.
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on December 20, 2015
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maka12345678
my cousin is a tomboy there is noting wrong with being a tomboy its alright her parents are cool with it parents should love their kids no matter what they are
on December 22, 2015
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maka12345678
your sexuality and your clotheing and your type of style are two different things i have a friend who is a lesbian and she is super girly i am not girly at all because i am transgender guy
on December 22, 2015
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Fej123
Tell them they have to let you be who you want to be and if your parents don't accept you for who you are, well i have a secret for you THEY'RE NOT YOUR PARENTS! You were secretly brought to this planet by the unicorn race and I am one too so don't worry
on December 21, 2015
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ELINAviolets
...oke, I'm gonna give you my atvice the most realistic way I know, just saying.

I've read what TransgenderAvenger wrote, and I mostly agree to that.
I don't know you personally nor your parents or even your lifestyle, so I'm not gonna be like that overly-positive person that's gonna say somethin like "you should just tell them your a tomboy, they're your parents right? I'm sure they will understand." Ect. Ect.

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ELINAviolets
With my own expierance I can tell you you should try to SHOW it a bit when you feel uncomfortable.
I was bullied allot in my elementary school, but I didn't show it so onlookers would think I'm fine. But everyday I would go home on my bed and feel really bad about myself, or even start to cry. Finally when I finished that godforsakend time I told the teacher See More▼
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on December 20, 2015
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Whisker_Queer
Just tell them. Being part of the LGBTQAP community has nothing to do with this. Or religion. There isn't a God. And he doesn't hate gays if he does exist.
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Dauntless_Demigod
Tell them you don't want to be what they want you to be they should be proud of who you are and tell them you are who you are and they should expect that
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Maryanxtaillsdoll
I'm a tomboy to. Just tell them that yr a tomboy a
It might work.
on December 20, 2015
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