why can't i find the one?

i'm only asking cause I've been waiting for about 5-6 years to be in a real serious relationship but they don't ever stay they go find someone better that can give them more than I ever did.. But I stayed loyal to them and made them happy I always thought to myself did I do something wrong, then when they leave me they always come back to me when they miss me cause they felt dumb for leaving me

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SHIRAZURE
You know why the girls in fairytales and shoujo mangas get someone?
They don't try to get into a relationship
Yeah
Just do this for sometime. Think of other goals you have in life, try to be happy. It is said that confidence is attractive.
Think of yourself. Maybe you're lacking something for relationship? Well every one has flaws , so we can do nothing but try to improve as we can't be perfect. Do something to eliminate some flaws which can be rectified.
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babydoll12
everytime I try get with someone or I like them it never goes so well it's like love wasn't meant for me </3
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SHIRAZURE
don't say that. it happens a lot to me. i feel the same. Maybe the fate has someone for you already or just to keep you away to surprise you < 3
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babydoll12
you know what I give up on him and relationships tbh </3
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SHIRAZURE
Oh no please don't
Just have trust!
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babydoll12
yeah I guess but I don't see him anymore cause his parents pick him up and his sister doesn't know when they will walk!! </3
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SHIRAZURE
oh no don't cry. it's gonna go alright.
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babydoll12
oh ok no but fr though I can't do this :'((
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SHIRAZURE
Me? Imma girl
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babydoll12
for real a guy or girl
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SHIRAZURE
15
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babydoll12
ok sure thanks and how old are you anyway lol
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SHIRAZURE
Ok do it whenever it's possible
It'll definitely worth to try
it is possible some day
right
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babydoll12
well I will try that thanks but I don't see that much thou
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SHIRAZURE
i'll just ship you two
don't loose hope
and maybe confess!!
coz i didn't
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babydoll12
ik but thanks anyway idk what to do my self
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SHIRAZURE
hmm
i wish i could help
but idk how
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babydoll12
I think they are walking Friday thou and no my parents won't let me out
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SHIRAZURE
hmm maybe y'all can meet at any gatherings.
but don't be sad!
can't you get his number somehow
or email
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babydoll12
I did lol he liked it and idk why he's being shy thou he was smiling before
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SHIRAZURE
aww but i guess he'll open up slowly
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babydoll12
anyway he's not smiling at me anymore cause he's shy and I just drew him a picture yesterday!!!
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SHIRAZURE
Show him ! 😍
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SHIRAZURE
That's so cute
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babydoll12
well I found out that he is 17!!
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SHIRAZURE
younger or elder? but anyway it doesn't matter C;
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babydoll12
thanks lol bye ttyl
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babydoll12
you really did help me lol
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SHIRAZURE
Bye ^3^
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SHIRAZURE
I'm glad
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babydoll12
nah i'm going to go clean lol
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SHIRAZURE
oh kk xD but i hope you go out with him somehow C:
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babydoll12
thanks for everything
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SHIRAZURE
Np i really like to ship people xD and i would be glad if i was of some help lol
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babydoll12
thanks i'll let you know how it goes lol
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SHIRAZURE
oh wait ..are you going somewhere with him?
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SHIRAZURE
yeah sure . i'll be waiting ;P
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babydoll12
yeah they are I gtg ttyl
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SHIRAZURE
ok bye good luck
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babydoll12
well the only time that I get to see him is when I go pick up my sister other than that they don't go outside :'(
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SHIRAZURE
oops i wanted to ask your sister and his sister . are they friends?
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babydoll12
yes but she is younger than me and she is in my sisters grade!!
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SHIRAZURE
are you & his sister friends?
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babydoll12
yeah plus I think this guy likes me in my apartment complex but idk how to talk to him thou???? </3
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SHIRAZURE
Aw ! why not you three go to some park or something . You can ask his sister to call him too ;3
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babydoll12
well I talked to her this morning about that and when I asked her about what was reaction when she said that I liked him and she said that he was shocked and said really and smiled
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SHIRAZURE
start a conversation on how cute his sister is maybe? which brother doesn't love his sister?
or do you know his hobbies or anything he likes?
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babydoll12
it's not that simple he's shy to and idk what to even say plus idk if he's going to go pick up sister today or not </3
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SHIRAZURE
oh wow that's romantic ;3
but just go girl! talk to him!
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babydoll12
ik but we've seen each other before it's just I've never talked to him thou cause I was shy to lol but now his sister is helping
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SHIRAZURE
that is really sweet!
you can say you're new here and say you're just there to greet your neighbors ;P
or
arrange a party or any other gathering and invite everyone in the apartment ;D
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babydoll12
thanks
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SHIRAZURE
really ? thats nice ^^ im glad
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babydoll12
aww that makes me feel better
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SHIRAZURE
ty^^
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SHIRAZURE
wait & you'll get the right person ^3^
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babydoll12
aww that really helps
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SHIRAZURE
Im sure you'll find one tho . Just believe ♡
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babydoll12
by the way it would be a guy
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SHIRAZURE
Np and i hope you find guy/girl of your dreams. :3
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NiaLaBeada
Please don’t worry yourself too much, love takes time. It’s probably not even your fault if they keep leaving you. Guys are jerks. (I’m a guy btw, 17)
You’ll find someone soon enough
babydoll12
I hope so !!! :9
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NiaLaBeada
Don’t worry, you will!! :-)
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gnocchi
maybe you’re not looking hard enough.
babydoll12
I have been!!!!
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Orange.Soda
It takes a while. Sometimes stepping back and taking care of yourself first helps. If you're in highschool or early adulthood, it may be harder for you specially.
babydoll12
true thanks a lot
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Derpyderpjuice
I also been trying to get a serious relationship for years as well. I'm not sure what the problem is, but i hope you find someone
babydoll12
really umm i'm just want to know why I can't I find the one tbh and u a guy or girl
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babydoll12
oh ok lol
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