How do I ask a guy out?

Okay, wow, this is desperate.
Okay, okay, so this is awkward af... Annnd I'm embarrassed. Okay, okay, okay, so I think I've liked this guy for like more than three years. Like, it started off as a REALLY, REALLY, REALLY small crush and then I think, well, I, um, you see, well shit, uh, so, (shit this is embarrassing!) Damn, so, f*ck it. So I kinda think I, um, fell in love sorta, but I don't want to mistaken a big crush for being in love. And we sorta went out and when we didn't we were always flirting and stuff and then when I fell in love with him because I'm a f*ckig idiot who always screws up her relationships because I'm afraid of getting close or attached to people so even though we were like really close friends almost. Um, now we don't really talk and well, I really, really, really, like, love him and well, I don't know about him. But I'm way too shy around him and there's no way I can break out of my shell and...(God this is embarrassinnng help meee)

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Hogwarts_Huntress
Make sure you hang out with him a lot. Enough that he considers you as a friend, but NOT best friend.
Once you've completed stage one, ask if you can talk to him alone.
Stage three: ask the question, but don't make it so obvious, so don't say 'Want to go out Friday night?' No, that is coming on too strong. Be easy with it. Say something like, 'Susie asked me to go to a movie with her, but she's bringing her boyfriend, do me a solid and come to not make it awkward?' Okay, but See More▼
Steven_Universe_Fandom_Queen
Actually our relationship is sort of awkward and distant now since I sorta pushed him away.
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Lillypad354
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ALRIGHTY HERE GOES NOTHIN

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Hang with him
Slowly, start to hang with him more often.
Then.
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alesa828
Stop cool I do that to
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