I don't know what to do

I don't know what to do

Ok, so here we go. This is like the first time I've said all of this, and I think I really need advice. Please seriously no hate or anything cos this is really serious for me.

I used to have this best friend/boyfriend (Let's call him Joseph) who lived next door to me. We were BESTEST friends ever, and used to run around the back of our gardens and over the fence and just chat and have sleepovers and everything. We kissed once. But then when I was eight, he moved house and now we barely speak. I was going to go to the same secondary school as him, but I got into a really good school, so now I don't. I really have no idea whether I love him, or miss him. It's just, I really really miss him and I've been so upset recently because I've found out that he likes a girl called Hannah. Yeah, I know everyone says 'People move on' but I don't want to and I don't know what to do anymore. I've texted him countless times, but he hasn't replied. Whenever there's a village event and we both go there, it's so awkward. We make eye contact, but we just break off after about three seconds. His brother (let's call him William) seems to miss me though. When Joseph had a girlfriend, apparently William asked about me in front of her and Joseph stormed off.
I really really miss Joseph. What should I do?

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nomnommoon
Hmm I would just maybe look him in the eye smile and just say hi joe and maybe if you aren't feeling awkward then he won't either I hope this helps
on July 20, 2013
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AlterEgo
Seems to me you should move on. If he got a girlfriend and all of that baloney then I don't think he's in to you anymore. Don't feel bad, though. Sometimes you just need to get away from a person or it could turn into a soft of obsession.
on September 16, 2014
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irisflower
u should ask him out
on January 15, 2014
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Layla_The_Gayla
I think you might be in love. Ask him out. Worst thing that could happen is he'd say now.
on January 12, 2014
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
on October 20, 2013
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
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NyanCatLover24
well maybe he is not in to you anymore.maybe he wants you and him to move on it may be better for you then what you thought
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Bmac99
Just try to talk to him. Maybe you're not meant to be together ya know? Maybe a friendship is for the best. There is a difference from loving him and being in love with him. I hope this helps.
on July 21, 2013
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Mary_chan
just face it.. he's moved on and sometimes that happens... its not anyones fault and certainly not yours.. if he loves another girl so be it.. but you need to know that he probably doesn't have any more feelings for you and I think you should accept that.. I would know.. I have went through the very same thing.
on July 20, 2013
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