Does he like me back?
Ok, so I REALLY like this guy named Chris. He's super funny, sweet, crazy, sensitive, friendly, you get it right? So anyways, I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to know if he likes me but, I am SUPER shy and even though we're like, best friends, I still can't get the courage to ask him and tell him I like him. And two of his other friends used to have crushes on me and I liked them back. But now we pretty much hate each other in a loving, friendly way. Anyways, Chris always talks to me, tells me EVERYTHING, tries to get me out in dodgeball, etc. So I really can't tell but I need to know. And, I also kinda like one of the other friends still. Please help me!
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You should tell him. We'll actually, how old are you? Age matters. BTW I like a funny, crazy guy named chris, too! Lolzzzz!
Really? Cool! Chris is crazy in his own nerdy, (in his eyes at least) way. I honestly think he's like the perfect mixture of all the important things, including a strong Christian believer, and a great mix of the non-important things like looks, etc. He's SUPER cute. We aren't old but aren't the youngest either. We're practically teens but not quite.:p
on July 20, 2014
on July 20, 2014
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Yeah. I agree with Derpy he does like you.
If you still like one of his other friends than wait.
If the feeling thickens after spending time with his friend than you need to take it slow a little longer. Don't act on impulse make a move once you are definate of your feelings.
When your sure of your feelings tell him. You will never know until you try.
If you still like one of his other friends than wait.
If the feeling thickens after spending time with his friend than you need to take it slow a little longer. Don't act on impulse make a move once you are definate of your feelings.
When your sure of your feelings tell him. You will never know until you try.
Well, I mean his other friends are my friends too. And we've all known each other since K5 so we have a pretty strong relationship as one big group of friends. And the other one is my ex-best friend because after we expressed our feelings to each other we started hating each other. We always get over ourselves but I am in that stage of life where I am young and See More▼ trying to be older I guess you would say. Anyways I told the other guy, who's name is Avery by the way, that I never wanted to talk to him again until he started being nice and stopped being jerky. Avery's weird, he'll say he likes me one day and then the next day he's acting like I'm some kind of disease.
Thanks Kazzy! Hopefully this works! Honestly though, I think I already know which one I like better. Avery's game of loving-hating me doesn't make for a good impression. Chris would never hurt me like that.:)<3:)
on July 19, 2014
1) go look for Avery and apologize.
He is a boy and at the stage of life he is in its common to tease a girl he likes.
2) don't assume they like you too.
This will cause problems in the future.
3) hang out with them both solely for a week. See More▼
This will help build a stronger foundation.
4) hang out by yourself for a week. Tell them you want alone time.
This is helpful for clearing out fake feelings. The one you miss the most is the one you most definitely like.
5) go to the one you picked (from step 5) and you don't have to say anything. Just peek his interest.
6) after this you will notice him getting suspices of your new attitude. (Be more bold for bigger effect.)
7) he may come to you and ask right out. Tell him.
8) after this play hard to get.
9) you have successfully hooked you man on the bait. Real him in.
1o) now you should have the courage to be strait out.
If not continue step 10. He will make the fist move.
REMEMBER!!!
Do not go over board.
He is a boy and at the stage of life he is in its common to tease a girl he likes.
2) don't assume they like you too.
This will cause problems in the future.
3) hang out with them both solely for a week. See More▼
This will help build a stronger foundation.
4) hang out by yourself for a week. Tell them you want alone time.
This is helpful for clearing out fake feelings. The one you miss the most is the one you most definitely like.
5) go to the one you picked (from step 5) and you don't have to say anything. Just peek his interest.
6) after this you will notice him getting suspices of your new attitude. (Be more bold for bigger effect.)
7) he may come to you and ask right out. Tell him.
8) after this play hard to get.
9) you have successfully hooked you man on the bait. Real him in.
1o) now you should have the courage to be strait out.
If not continue step 10. He will make the fist move.
REMEMBER!!!
Do not go over board.
on July 19, 2014
Well, I won't tell you exactly how old but I will tell you this, we aren't old. We're actually pretty young. Yesterday I told Avery I would stop talking to him and I haven't seen him since so, haven't really talked to him. They like video games and so do I.
on July 19, 2014
Hmm well do you still talk to Avery? He seems like he's not sure of his own feelings much. How old are you and these boys? It will help me a little more. (Don't have to tell me)
And he's a boy. Its not weird he's just shy. What do these boys look like what are they into? Anything revealing there personality and style can also help evaluate the situation.
And he's a boy. Its not weird he's just shy. What do these boys look like what are they into? Anything revealing there personality and style can also help evaluate the situation.
on July 19, 2014
on July 19, 2014
on July 19, 2014
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From how you described it, I'd imagine he does like you. But, I'm not completely sure. Maybe he just wants to be friends. But if he tells you everything, you guys are best friends, he purposely tries to get you out, I'd think he does. How you'd tell him, I don't know. When I had a crush on someone, I waited on them to tell me (which took a long time, but eventually they did say), and maybe you should. But don't take my advise for granted. I'm usually wrong.
Thank you so much! I really want him to like me cause he's like the best person I know and I love in like, a sisterly, friendly way too. But what about his other friends that I am in like a love-hate relationship with?
on July 19, 2014
on July 19, 2014
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i'm the same age as you and does he act like he likes anyone else? if not, go for it, i'm betting he likes you
on May 21, 2016
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"So anyways, I can't stop thinking about him and I really want to know if he likes me but, I am SUPER shy and even though we're like, best friends, I still can't get the courage to ask him and tell him I like him."
I know this is really late but that is exactly me. I hate being shy.
I know this is really late but that is exactly me. I hate being shy.
on November 20, 2015