How do i tell my dad i like girls?
Recently I have been getting attracted to girls and decide im bisexual but my dad is a republican and is against gay rights...and it will be a little while before I move out and im surely gonna have a gf before I move out and my mom is proud of me for opening up to a new experience but she doesn't want my dad to ever know but I gotta tell him eventually because he's gonna find out sooner or later and he KNOWS when im liying to him...what do I do?
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I think you should tell him. Your mom should support you, if he finds you with a girlfriend and explodes that would be much worse than him exploding in your house when no one is visiting
Your_Average_Fangirl
No I actually think it's a good idea! ^_^ my mom and I went over it and we decided that when I get a girlfriend we will tell him ^-^
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RoseHeart
Ok, well I'm glad that I helped
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on October 20, 2014
on October 20, 2014
Your_Average_Fangirl
Thanks
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RoseHeart
Sorry if I'm not much help
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on October 20, 2014
on October 20, 2014
on October 20, 2014
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Tell him that you have started feeling attraction towards other girls and ask him to help you, if you think he's not going to accept you. Cause if he doesn't like you because of that, try to be straight. If you really can't just tell him "I'm your daughter and you should love me for who I am.." I think it'll be fine if you're bi.
on October 22, 2014
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He's your dad, he should understand ^.^ after all, that's what fathers do
But the problem is he's against that people... :(
on November 21, 2014
on November 21, 2014
Exactly. He's your dad! What's he gonna do, arrest you? Kill you?? I don't think so, honey!!
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on October 22, 2014
on October 21, 2014
on October 20, 2014
on October 20, 2014
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Just tell him. Like you said, he will find out sooner or later. Better now tell him. If you lie, it will only make matters worse
on October 20, 2014
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I love you for being who you are. Even though I'm straight, I think gays, lesbians, homosexuals, bisexuals, transgendered people, etc. totally ROCK!
Thanks! :D your one of the very few people in the world who sees it as something normal :) I hope there's more people in the world like you someday!
it technicaly is something normal so I don't get why people make a big deal out of it.
on November 03, 2014
on October 22, 2014
on October 22, 2014
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be confident when i told my parents i liked girls they took it a lot better than id thought, i thought theyd kick and scream at me. just say dad i need to tell you some thing and tell him at a pace your dad will be able process what you are saying. have your mother in the room as back up if your dad does react but just make it clear it what you want. dont let him get you down
be strong be happy
good luck
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be strong be happy
good luck
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on March 01, 2019
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h...im not so good at these things but! um....JUST..... HECK YOUR MEH BFF I WILL TELL HIIM!!! (or at least try to lol )
on February 11, 2015
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Well, this is a very difficult thing to do. Make sure your mom is with you. Be calm and straight-forward with it, don't sugar coat. Don't ever raise your voice or get defensive. Just tell him straight out and own it, do not back down; worse thing you can do is cave in. Do tell him though because otherwise it will only make it worse. Be very gentle though, I know this seems contradictarory but what I mean is don't be like "Dad, I'm gay. Deal with it." Say something more along the See More▼ lines of "I know it may come as a shock to you and you will disagree with it, but as my father you promised to love me forever. My sexuality is undefined to me so I am experimenting. (you said you were bi but if you think you're really les I'll reword this). I hope we can still love each other as a father and daughter should." Good luck and just remember candid but gentle with your mom in the room.
on October 21, 2014
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on October 21, 2014
Ok thanks I will try my best to get all the advice on this in one and hopefully he will understand
on October 21, 2014
on October 21, 2014
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I say tell him “dad I’m bisexual and if you don’t like that then that’s your problem cause you should love me no matter what cause some couples can’t have children and if you have me your blessed”
on March 02, 2019
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Maybe you can pray to go And ask him to help you out and be straight. But God can't help with everything but, don't tell your self your bisexual your only like 14 your confused you don't really know what you wanna do, but nothing can stop you from being you.
I hate you. Get a life.
being Gay isn’t a sin nor a crime so STOP USING GOD AS YOUR PREJUSTICE RELIGION IS ABOUT LOVING ONE ANOTHER AND YOUR USING IT AS AN EXCUSE TO HATE @JayCity02
on March 02, 2019
Exactly! He thinks he's a great Christian but if he's sexist like that he's defiantly not a good one.
on November 10, 2014
It's telling the truth. People don't Wanna know the truth these days. I know I'm judging but If your juding somebody and its not bad or a sin then correct them. I just follow God you should to you probably do but I follow him morethen you do
on November 10, 2014
Okay, let's go over all the stuff you said.
-"Don't tell your self your bisexual your only like 14 your confused"
-"Ask him to help you out and be straight"
-"because your suppost to know its wrong to you know how gross it is when a boy kisses or has sex with a boy or a girl kisses or has sex with a girl"
Sounds like hate
-"Don't tell your self your bisexual your only like 14 your confused"
-"Ask him to help you out and be straight"
-"because your suppost to know its wrong to you know how gross it is when a boy kisses or has sex with a boy or a girl kisses or has sex with a girl"
Sounds like hate
on November 09, 2014
on November 09, 2014
on October 22, 2014
Friend there's nothing in the bible that says homosexuality is wrong and if your not gonna let me be me then please leave...God loves me for who I am and I think being bisexual is who I am unless God tells me to be straight I stay this way.
God does love you for who he made you to be.
But the path you chosen he doesn't like it.
Sodom and Gamorrah was burned down because of that path.
I'm not saying you Cannot do it, you can do it, God will still love you as his child.
But he will always dislike the path that you have chosen.
But the path you chosen he doesn't like it.
Sodom and Gamorrah was burned down because of that path.
I'm not saying you Cannot do it, you can do it, God will still love you as his child.
But he will always dislike the path that you have chosen.
on October 28, 2014
on October 22, 2014
on October 21, 2014