What do I do in this situation?
Okay, so I am about to be fourteen. I know everyone is going to say "Don't get involved with love, it only hurts" but I have no crushes and no one that I suspects that has a crush on me. I feel extremely lonely since everyone else I know either dated, has a crush, or is dating. I know that I should wait for my time to come, but I feel like that'll never happen. People sometimes joke (I know they're joking, but sometimes it makes me feel a bit worse) that I'm just going to be a crazy cat lady! I really just want to at least have a real life crush, but I don't know what to do and how to stop my feelings about this.
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I understand how you feel, because sometimes I feel like that too. Everyone I'm friends with in real life is dating someone, and it can make me feel lonely. But just try to get through this feeling. If you date people or force yourself to have a crush on someone just because other people do, it won't really mean anything. And in my opinion, there's no point in dating someone unless you truly love them. And when you're 14, relationships aren't really that important. If you want See More▼ to have a relationship in the future, I think it's better to wait until you are 15 or 16, because then you and the people around you will be more mature. Try to focus on being happy with yourself as you are, and concentrate on your own life, and one day someone will admire you for this and love you for who you are. I hope this helped! ?
on December 06, 2016
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Dude just wait it out. It seems like you'll never find love at 14 especially but it's gonna happen sooner or later. Relationships at 14 never work out anyway
on December 05, 2016